lockanky wrote:
But I love my wife so much for what she is doing. She is being selfish, because she really doesn't want to be bothered with my sexual needs until her project is over.
This whole experience may actually end up being a tremendous gift to my wife. She is learning that she can put her needs first. That was not previously in her nature.
Hopefully the cat is out of the bag and will never go back in - because I think that is healthy for her.
i haven't been in chastity for very long but i feel you've really got this wrong and that most KeyHolder's would be only too happy to put you right !!! Time for a bit of discipline and humility i think !!
Statements such as "She is being selfish" "a tremendous gift to my wife" and "i think that is healthy for Her" would be reason for a fairly heavy duty discipline session with my MsM and She doesn't even like discipline !!!
Seriously, i'm not sure you're very far through this journey yet. Just my sub view though !!
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