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[owned_sissy] Exciting and New

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Like many accounts I’ve read here, as far back as I can remember, my fantasies always involved some sort of kink. As I grew into my teenage years, and discovered the wonderful world of internet porn, my fantasies quickly began to revolve around being subservient to women. I constantly fantasized about being humiliated and dominated by a woman, though of course I never had the courage to broach this in any of my early relationships.

My wife and I began dating when we were 17, our senior year in high school. The relationship grew to be more serious through our college years, and we married shortly after graduation. Like any young couple, our early years were extremely sexually active, and while that has never really fallen off substantially at any point in our relationship, about four or five years in, I began to try and get her to indulge my kinky side. Like anyone in this position, I was nervous about broaching the subject, out of fear for her rejecting my fantasies as crazy. Luckily for me, that never happened, and while we eased into it very slowly, she grew to be more comfortable with dominating me on an occasional basis. Over the years, we’ve experimented with a lot of things; forced feminization, sissy play, strap-ons (my personal favorite), physical punishment, candle wax, etc. Most of my fantasies tend to revolve around sissy, strap-on play and verbal humiliation, while my wife has always taken to the physical punishment side of it, the woman has an innate ability to administer a spanking. We even went to a pro Domme once, and I had the opportunity to serve two Mistresses (reference that in my mind quite often). It went on like this for the last 9 or 10 years, her indulging my fantasies, because she’s a great lady and she likes that I like it. That said, I always felt it was missing something, instead of her doing it because I like it, I wanted her to embody being my Mistress, and derive the same pleasure I did. Like many other accounts I’ve read here, out of love for me, she was sometimes reluctant to insult and degrade me, despite my assurances that I couldn’t get enough of it.

That brings us to about a month ago. I honestly can’t pinpoint how the idea of a chastity cage arose, but I do remember I brought it up to her in a text message. For some time now, my wife have enjoyed sending explicit texts to each other (the kids call it sexting). Anyway, I broached the topic of her keeping me locked up, and to my substantial surprise, she responded almost immediately, letting me know she expected it to be purchased on and on the way to the house within one week. I was somewhat at a loss, I really didn’t expect that response, but that was quickly replaced by extreme excitement. I had the CB6000 ordered by the next day. We joked and teased quite a bit about her keeping me locked up while the device was in the mail. Once it arrived, neither of us could wait to get it on. I ended up wearing it for about 6 hours that first day, the day ended with her strap on in my ass and her letting me cum. Since that first day, we have essentially been insatiable; we’re both extremely turned on by her being in control. While my line of work does not allow me to wear the device during the day, we’ve experimented with her denying me up to 5 days so far, though I’m not always in the cage. The longest I’ve gone with the cage on so far is about 35 hours. It has also been a great addition to our sissy and strap-on play. I really knew I was hooked when I went out with my friends one night (wearing the cage and panties) and when I got home, she took the cage off, rode my cock to two orgasms, and coldly told me to put the cage back on, without cumming! The biggest difference I’ve noticed between this and our previous play is that my wife is legitimately into it, and seems to be getting a significant amount of pleasure from controlling me, this in turn makes me so excited, I have trouble sitting still. My guess is, she’s probably the one most surprised by just how much she seems to enjoy it. She’s already bought four books on the subject and finds time for some internet research each day (sometimes tough when she’s home with our 5 and 3 year olds). That said, she has also consistently said she’d like to connect with like minded women to discuss and share ideas with. For that reason, I’m hoping she’ll create her own account here, but if nothing else, she will have access to read my posts and the replies.

At first, both of us were concerned about being so excited and kind of overdoing it, and wearing it out. After realizing just how much we both really like it, we decided that was nonsense, if we’re both getting off of it; then why the heck should we stop? Anyway, we’re both really looking forward to learning more about it.
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Looks like you both are off to a good start.

Keep us posted.
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So it turns out that when I was drafting my very first post for this forum last night, I was getting in trouble without even knowing it. My wife had taken our two kids to church for what amounts to a play group for a few hours. I made myself some dinner and proceeded to write the post above. About 2 hours later she sent me a text asking me what I was doing. I answered honestly, I joined the online forum we looked at, and I’m writing a post. The response I got; “I left you a job to do, you only have 15 minutes left.” I quickly ran into the kitchen to find a note pad on the counter with a note on it that I had walked by without noticing no less than 3 times in the previous 2 hours. The note told me I was to write a fantasy prior to her return. I quickly began to scratch something out, developing the story as I went, it turned out to be pretty poor, and I only got about halfway through before she got home, she ended up taking about 30 minutes. I did get about 5 pages done, though the handwriting terrible, it basically revolved around her embarrassing me by brining a girlfriend over and telling her about our chastity secret. It culminated with me taking both their strap-ons, which certainly is a fantasy of mine, but it was poorly and hastily written.

Not surprisingly, she was not content when they all arrived back home. While the kids were running around telling me how much fun they had, she was giving me constant, “I’m disappointed in you!” looks. The kids ran around for an hour, then she put them to bed. While they were all upstairs, I was busy wondering what my punishment was going to be for failing to complete my task. However, when she came back down, she didn’t say a word about it, we watched a little TV on the couch, followed by some heavy petting. “It’s time to go to bed” she said, and we both headed upstairs. Maybe she’s not that mad I thought, things didn’t start to get interesting until we climbed into bed. I want you to know that I had intended to reward your good behavior by letting you fuck me tonight, she said. Since you can’t seem to complete a simple task , that won’t be happening, but I want you to know what you missed out on. As she was talking, she grabbed my hand and gently placed it inside her pants, she was sopping wet, and clearly quite turned on. I can’t reward your terrible behavior she said, as I put two finger inside her, she began to rub her clit. She paused for a moment to get her bullet vibe which she wound up and rubbed all over my balls and cage, until the ache was almost more than I could take. Over and over again she said, just think, you could be inside my tight wet pussy right now, if you knew how to follow instructions. I then fingered her and she used her vibe until she had an intense orgasm. She instructed me to lick my fingers clean and go to sleep. I swear I almost came when I heard those words. She rolled over and closed her eyes without saying another word.

I love that she stuck to her guns, and didn’t let me out of the cage. I didn’t deserve to be let out. In our prior play, I think she would have relented and given me what I wanted. Now I think she’s really starting to get off on the power of being able to control me. This is our first foray into longer term chastity, it’s been 3 days and she’s already told me she wants to see how long I can go. Only once I have I felt compelled to ask when she will let me out, the answer; all I can tell you is…….not today.
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So I managed to stay out of trouble last night. My wife went out with her friends, I had about an hour with the kids before putting them to bed. After that, I had about 2 hours to myself before she arrived back home. Those two hours were filled with several text messages threatening to tell her girlfriends that she keeps my cock locked up. While the thought of that is legitimately terrifying, it's also incredibly exciting. Also, despite not being left with any tasks in her absence, I took the initiative to write another fantasy, since I'd done so poorly at this task the night before. This one turned out quite a bit better if I do say so myself.

She got home about 10:15 and immediately made it clear she was ready to go up to our room. I really wasn't sure what to expect because she'd been routinely reminding me over the previous several days that she intended to see how long I could go. Well......that plan went out the window pretty fast. She made me beg to take the cage off and after unlocking me she barely even waited for me to get the base ring off before climbing on top of me. Before I knew it, my cock was inside her and she was grinding her hips. I held on for about 10 minutes before begging her to cum, and once she gave me permission, I exploded deep inside her. So in the end, we made it three days. As soon as I was done though, she informed me that the only reason she gave me a release is because she intended to keep me locked up from the moment I got home on Friday, to the last minute before I left for work on Monday morning. She claims she's following "the book" on building me up to longer periods of time. Apparently she's taken to following Sarah's blog at http://www.malechastityblog.com/blog. She allowed me to sleep without the cage last night.

I woke up about 3:00 am this morning and noticed my cage wasn't on, "Oh my god, it's come off" I thought, "she's going to be furious!" I quickly remembered she had allowed me to leave it off, but it seems I'm certainly starting to yearn to have it on. I couldn't wait to get back home today to be resecured.
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Well, she's held true to her word, I've been locked up since the moment I got home from work on Friday. Yesterday turned out to be a great day, she teased me consistently throughout the day and I tried to find little ways to please her; laundry, getting her coffee, making dinner, making her a cup of tea...etc. For about a week, she's been teasing me about expecting a package with numerous new items for us to play with. I was out in the yard with the kids yesterday morning when she came outside with the package in her hand, "Let the celebration begin!" she said. I ended up wearing my butt plug for about 8 hours yesterday, she had me go run errands with it in. Love the feeling of driving in the car with it in, every bump gets transmitted directly to my ass.

We got busy pretty quickly once the kids were in bed, she got a long hot shower and I rubbed her legs and feet with lotion, as has become our ritual. Then she got the first toy out, a bullet wand designed for G-spot stimulation. She gave me a quick lesson on how she would like it used, and I went to work lapping her clit and slowly increasing the speed of the vibe. Near the end, she grabbed the back of my head and ground it into her pussy as she came, I LOVE when she does that. After that, I found out the wand wasn't just for her, she pulled my plug out and inserted it into my ass, applying it directly to my prostate. This is when I found out what my previous homework assignment was for. As you'll see from the posts above, she'd asked me to write a fantasy for her earlier in the week, and though I'd taken me two tries, I thought it turned out pretty well. What happened next was amazing; she read the entire story out loud as she massaged my prostate. I don't know how long it took, but it seemed like hours as my cock strained against the cage. The story is just short of 5 pages long, I'll be posting it to the Fiction Forum in just a few minutes. Once done with the story, she turned the wand up high for a few minutes, pulled it out and simply stated, "Okay, that's enough for tonight, clean the toys up and go to sleep."

Go to sleep? What she serious? It took me about an hour and half of deep breathing to calm down enough to fall asleep. She is allegedly new to this, though you wouldn't know it by the things that have been going on in this house, man, she is devious. It was amazing last night.

One other very notable item from yesterday. I one of our numerous sext messages, I'd hinted towards denying me for 15 days, I thought it was harmless. When I delivered her tea to her in the evening, she asked me if that's what I really wanted, and said she'd originally been planning to work up to longer periods. In a legitimate moment of indecision, I blurted out, "Yes, that's what I want Mistress." I went upstairs after we were done talking, wondering if I just had a; be careful what you wish for moment. Currently, the longest we have gone is 5 days. I suppose it's somewhat comforting to know that even if I wanted to change my mind, it wouldn't matter anyway.

So she still hasn't shown my anything else that was in the box, but told me there was several more items. And she asked me one off the wall question that has been stuck in my mind ever since, "You don't have to go anywhere tomorrow do you?" The answer was no, but why the heck would she ask me that? I can't stop thinking about it. I'm not sure if there is any here capable of confirming this, but I'm pretty sure I may be the luckiest person in the world!
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It didn't take long at all for to understand why Mistress had asked me if I had to go anywhere today. About 10:00 this morning I was on my hands and knees in our bedroom getting a bullet vibe stuffed in my ass, and she has been torturing me with it ever since. This is the second item from her new bag of tricks that I have been exposed to, It's on a short cord, and the remote is stored in my back pocket. She told me I didn't have to leave the house today, but she's been hinting lately that she would like a new necklace to keep her key on. She took the kids to church this morning, and turned it on low before she left. The intent was obvious, it was going to be on until she got back.

The feeling is hard to describe, unlike the chastity cage, which I tend to forget about at times, the bullet is a constant reminder of who is in charge in our relationship. Feeling adventures, I ventured out to the store in search of a necklace. Not surprisingly, the first place I went didn't have what I was looking for, but it was an interesting experience trying to carry on a conversation with the jewelry counter girl.

On to the second store where I browed quite a bit, with a 65 year old sales lady following me every step of the way, and asking question after question. LEAVE ME ALONE, I feel like I'm about to faint, I wanted to tell her Found what I was looking for this time, quickly checked out and headed back to the car. I beat them home, and when she arrived, she thankfully gave me a break and turned the vibe off for about an hour. After lunch she went to grocery store and took a run with her friend, leaving me to play with the kids with it set on about medium. Makes it kind of hard to kick a ball around in the yard, not to mention sitting at the table trying to color.

That brings us to about now, with the vibe buzzing away inside me as I type this. It's just impossible to forget about, especially since I keep getting humiliating text messages all day. I've said it before and I'll say it again, if she's a novice at this, god only knows what it's going to be like when she becomes and expert. I'm guessing that won't take like since she's reading about 3 different blogs and has downloaded four books on the subject.

The fantastic journey continues......
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