Re: [sherulestherooster] Better marriage through male chastity
Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:30 am
We've had some relationship problems that seem to be on their way to being worked out. Basically, communication issues. Had a very up front discussion about it last night, things seem to be moving in the right direction.
She asked me if I had masturbated because she didn't feel me hard against her the night before. No, I haven't in several months. I then asked her if she's masturbated. She told me that she masturbates in the shower about once a week. I started to get into sub-space with the thoughts of her having so many more orgasms than me, and it being perfectly acceptable for her to masturbate whereas she forbids it for me.
I gave her a nice orgasm, and almost immediately after she came, a kid knocked on our door. She took care of the matter and then we had some basking time where I stimulated her. She says her body is so sensitive after an orgasm. She then asked if I had any condoms and then changed her mind, she wanted me to wait longer, then decided she wanted a second orgasm. In my mind, I'm thinking that this probably means she's come about 6-7 times since the last time I have had an orgasm.
Since we were sorta in a "disclosure" mood, I mentioned to her that I bought a new chastity cage and that it fits me pretty well. It was a little hard to judge her reactions to it, but she basically said, "hmmm, we could play with that later". I gave a suggestion to her as to when would be a good lock up time about two weeks from now when she will be gone dropping our daughter off at school and I will join them a day late. She seemed intrigued by that idea. Then she said, maybe we'll play with it before then. Truth be told, I've done some self-locking and some showering, one overnight lockup, but I'm not really sure what it will be like to be deliberately aroused when locked in this cage - it's a fairly short, compact cage. I told her all that, and there is just something about feeling more intimate with her when I'm enabled to be honest about my kinks.
I'm not embarrassed that I have a couple of chastity devices and that I enjoy T&D so much. I think it's who I am. anyway, this was all sorta pillow talk as she said she wanted another orgasm last night. She came again and then another kid (who doesn't even live with us) knocked on our door, again immediately after she came. WTF. Can't wait to be an empty nester!
Anyway, she gave me a nice T&D session with me being fully nude. I have a lot of energy right now!
She asked me if I had masturbated because she didn't feel me hard against her the night before. No, I haven't in several months. I then asked her if she's masturbated. She told me that she masturbates in the shower about once a week. I started to get into sub-space with the thoughts of her having so many more orgasms than me, and it being perfectly acceptable for her to masturbate whereas she forbids it for me.
I gave her a nice orgasm, and almost immediately after she came, a kid knocked on our door. She took care of the matter and then we had some basking time where I stimulated her. She says her body is so sensitive after an orgasm. She then asked if I had any condoms and then changed her mind, she wanted me to wait longer, then decided she wanted a second orgasm. In my mind, I'm thinking that this probably means she's come about 6-7 times since the last time I have had an orgasm.
Since we were sorta in a "disclosure" mood, I mentioned to her that I bought a new chastity cage and that it fits me pretty well. It was a little hard to judge her reactions to it, but she basically said, "hmmm, we could play with that later". I gave a suggestion to her as to when would be a good lock up time about two weeks from now when she will be gone dropping our daughter off at school and I will join them a day late. She seemed intrigued by that idea. Then she said, maybe we'll play with it before then. Truth be told, I've done some self-locking and some showering, one overnight lockup, but I'm not really sure what it will be like to be deliberately aroused when locked in this cage - it's a fairly short, compact cage. I told her all that, and there is just something about feeling more intimate with her when I'm enabled to be honest about my kinks.
I'm not embarrassed that I have a couple of chastity devices and that I enjoy T&D so much. I think it's who I am. anyway, this was all sorta pillow talk as she said she wanted another orgasm last night. She came again and then another kid (who doesn't even live with us) knocked on our door, again immediately after she came. WTF. Can't wait to be an empty nester!
Anyway, she gave me a nice T&D session with me being fully nude. I have a lot of energy right now!