[notbeinfringed85] Better Off Locked

[notbeinfringed85]

I guess the best place to start is how is was before. I've been married for going on 8 years to the most beautiful and desirable woman ever. We have one amazing child together and our relationship was always stable. When we were in college and dating, we were connected at the genitals. After we got married, it slacked off, which is suppose is the norm. It kept getting less frequent and soon we were having sex about 3 or 4 times a year. I had quit worrying about her needs, just get in, get off, and go to sleep. I am the one to blame for the lack of intimacy. During this time, I masturbated two or three times a day and became addicted to pornography. I found myself turning down her advances and attention. THIS WAS NO WAY TO BE. A few months ago, I decided that I was going to change, and I did get a little better. However, the temptation was too great and I started falling back into my old ways.

I had seen male chastity devices online before, but it never peaked my interest. I mean, who would want to deny themselves access to the part that gives them the most pleasure. I had 2 or more orgasms a day, with as many as 10 one particular Saturday. Now that I realized my situation was dire, I changed my opinion on such a device. I talked with my wife about and and came clean to her with all that I had been doing. She was in the dark about my habits and thought that I was cheating on her and didn't find her attractive anymore. After we hashed this out, I shown her some devices on the web. She seemed open to the idea, and we ordered our first device.

I received the device I ordered, the Bon 4 Plus system, last Friday. It was hard to find advice for an uncircumcised male, as to which device would be best and cleanest. I decided on a silicon device because of my activities at work. If this works out, I may get a steel device for weekend wear, but I have to avoid metal during work. I am an electrician and know the dangers of wearing metal rings, watches, and jewelry when working around high voltage. I'm sure a metal ring around my junk and a cage around my member would not be safe or easy to explain at the hospital, or worse, undertakers.

Anyhow, after most of the day Friday fitting and and experimenting, I found a combination that works. Saturday proved to be a long day, as was Sunday. Today is better as I'm getting used to the feel of something constantly down there. My last orgasm was Thursday, making this the longest I have ever gone since I found out I could do it. I haven't been let out as of yet, as I can maintain proper hygiene with the device on, despite being uncircumcised. I know I will get out Thursday, as I have to have a medical test done, but am to go right back in as soon as possible. I'm so glad my wife has took to this lifestyle so quickly and easily, as I have read that some don't. She allowed me to service her every night since we got the device. I think she realizes that I want to be all about her and quit being a selfish bastard. I know it's really early into this and I know that this takes time, just as everything else, but I think this might be the best thing that could happen to us. I find myself thinking about her all day, not just sexually, but as to how lucky I am and how much I deeply love her. I wish I had started this sooner.

[Intense_Restraint]

Wow, what a big change in your life! I agree this could be the best decision you could possibly make. I hope all goes wonderfully for both of you. Congratulations. I'm happy for you.

[notbeinfringed85]

So another day locked. Today makes the fifth day since I started this lifestyle change and the longest I have ever went without an orgasm, let alone touch myself. Sometimes I catch myself rubbing my cage, guess out of pure habit. Sleep was fairly easy last night but I find myself struggling to come to terms with this. I know it's best for my marriage and life so I am going to stick this out. I've read it gets easier with time. Is there any way to make the click run faster.

[notbeinfringed85]

Got released last night due to some bruising, on the underside of my penis close to my balls. I think it was caused by the end of the cage. While average length, I tend to be on the thick side. I knew I was pressing hard on the cage there, but had no idea of the damage. On the somewhat bright side, my key holder got turned on by me wincing in pain. We had sex and I was allowed an orgasm, even though it was excruciating. So I'm out till it heals and on the honor system, which is no problem right now since I am too sore to hold it while taking a piss.

[chastehub]

I am too sore to hold it while taking a piss.

Wow! If it is that sore i can just imagine the trepidation associated with locking back up in that device. i hope you're able to figure out the fit, or find a different device that fits better; what you're going through doesn't sound like any fun.

[notbeinfringed85]

Out till Monday. We are gonna go a little more slow. She said by May 1st, I need to be adjusted for long term wear. I'm going to be a good boy and do whatever it takes.

[notbeinfringed85]

So my last day of freedom before I go back into he device while unsupervised. I healed quite well, and am feeling well. Yesterday, my beautiful bride had me give her a massage, which had me erect in just a few minutes. After this was done, she rolled over and had me remove her panties while she kissed me and twisted my nipples. I started to take off my shirt, but got a slap in the face, her favorite thing to do as of lately. She then had me bring her to orgasm by oral. After she was content, she told me to brush my teeth while she cleaned up and got dressed.

We talked after which she explained to me that she enjoys getting what she wants while not having to worry about my needs. I told her that the only thing I need is for her to be satisfied. I guess I'm starting to feel this "sub-space" people talk about. She also explained to me that orgasms by oral are much better for her than any other orgasm or stimulation I can give her, which meant my cock is not needed for her to enjoy sex. It's been 5 days since any PIV sex with no sight if any for a while, since it's second best for her. Also been 5 days since my last O. I wonder what this means for me, since my tongue is all that is wanted.

[notbeinfringed85]

So I was locked back in while unsupervised today. This makes day 6 in a row without an O, plus I've been teased some. I know most of you could do 6 days standing in your head, but I'm in uncharted territory for me. My Bon4 felt better today even though it was only on for 8 hours. I'm starting to have a constant "blue balls" pain, even when I'm not in the device. I've noticed after an erection it gets a little worse for an hour or so. I told my KH, which she responded with "Good!" I've never seen this sadistic side of her, but I must admit I rather enjoy it.

[notbeinfringed85]

Day 8, no O. Constant soreness. I feel more submissive now than ever. I got up and made her breakfast early and felt like I did something good. She said she expects it every day now, and I'll be happy to oblige. I'm glad she locks me when I'm unsupervised because I don't know if my will is strong enough to resist it. When she unlocks me of the evening, I get hard instantly. She laughs and gives it a quick but sharp tap. I find myself squirming and unable to get comfortable. The device does not hurt, but reminds me constantly of what my purpose is, and who I belong to. I love her.

[notbeinfringed85]

Wow, I got a treat last night. I was all ready for bed, unlocked as I am only locked while unsupervised. The rolled over and grabbed my package with a firm grip, telling me how full my balls were. Then she moved down to give me head. THIS IS A HUGE FUCKING DEAL!! I haven't got a BJ in a long time, at least a couple years. We ended up just good ol' fashioned hard fucking. She had me bring myself to edge inside her, then pull out and lick her to an orgasm, then go back to fucking her. After her third orgasm like this, she rolled me over and got on top. She had me cum inside her, but kept going. Nothing like a little POT. Agree about a minute, she moved up and straddled my stomach, kissing me, letting her and my juices run over me. After about ten minutes of making out, she got up and led me to the shower. We washed, but no funny business. After getting back in bed, she said that would take care of her for a couple weeks. Oh joy. It was the best sex we have had since we were teenagers. Her denying me has made my orgasm so much more intense, when I get one that is. I'm free till Monday, which she said I will try to go as long as I can in the cage, or until she decides to let me out. Oh, and in case you didn't know, CHASTITY ROCKS!!