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Well there is no denying it, wearing the Nub for as little as 3.5 days is making my erections firmer. I have no good explanation for this, but she likes it I haven't read anywhere that this is a side effect of wearing a device. My working theory is a few days of no sensation makes me more sensitive when I'm out.
So Sunday a bit of play, she enjoyed the vixskin, for a long time, I keep expecting the neighbors to call the police and report a woman is being murdered (high density area, but we do have our own small lot) She left me out for Sunday evening, but Monday morning it was "we need to get you locked back up and I have a 9 o'clock appointment" So in other words, lock up pretty much now.
She did mention on Sunday a few things that could be in my future, I agree with all of them, I was thinking along the same lines...I think I've infected her...
We have an understanding, that unauthorized orgasms will use up two of my 12 permissions per year. Last week was unexpected, but unauthorized. So after thinking about it for a week, she mentioned that I would be getting fewer orgasms this year than I expected. I suspect it will be June, before I have a chance for another. She mentioned a few other possibilities, all of which I heartily agree with.
There is no question, wearing this device is changing both of us...I think that's a good thing.

You would think with both of us working from home that there would be more interaction, nope. She's in healthcare, they increased her time from 80% to 100% for the crisis, but at the same time banned her from the hospital due to her risk factors. So she's stuck doing things she doesn't like, feeling mistreated (she's right) and not very happy in general. She's much more social than I, so this quarantine is really wearing on her, me, I have no problems not interacting with people. As a state employee I'm considered essential personnel. But my job entails driving 20% of the time and meeting with people. No driving, means no meetings, so I "work" a few hours a day, this also does not make her happy. She goes upstairs (a brief pause to thank all the gods that she has an office upstairs) around 8 and I don't see her again until 6:30 or 7. She usually works through lunch. With all the stories of economic woes, we're going to come out of this well. Her increase in time means a 20% raise. Give me a 20% raise and we could go out for a nice dinner. Her 20% raise means I can think about buying a new car in a few months...

So, I'm still locked most days. She really likes it, which just astounds us both. My erections continue to be firmer, which she still enjoys. We did get to try out the new Deuce harness for the Vixskin. It's a tremendous improvement, much more comfortable for both of us. No hard things poking her. The only thing she doesn't like about the HT Nub she doesn't like is it does cause some slight bruising to my penis. This doesn't concern me, I bruise easily (an aspirin a day will do that) but she is concerned about it. Luckily, my new Cherry Keeper, small with medium headlock, arrives today. I'm hoping that will stop the bruising issue. It's a bit longer. I ordered it April 5, with an expected ship date of May 4. It shipped April 17. I'm glad I didn't pay for the rush production. I have no idea if this is a normal turn around or if their business is down due to the pandemic. She didn't like that I ordered it in white, so I told her we could dye it. She said SHE would order the next one in color!! Add that to things I never expected to hear. If she wasn't so upset with work, I think we could be having a lot of fun while locked in At the very least I'll be locked up today until Sunday. She did say that I'm not going to have near as many orgasms this year as I thought.

She did read the key holders group a bit and commented that many of the posts say something along the lines of lock him up and never let him out...I think she is taking some inspiration from that.

Interesting bit of conversation, 20 years ago when I brought this up, she thought I was exceptionally weird. Now that she's joined this forum she realizes that I'm just weird. I've been in the Cherry Keeper since Tuesday, we'll check it out today or tomorrow for any bruising, but I'm fairly certain there won't be any. I'm thinking of trying a Cherry Keeper short with a large headlock, just for fun. The base ring has given me no problems, even though it's tighter than the HT ring.

She even posted something to the Keyholders group, no response yet, but I think activity on many of these boards is down. I'm grateful she was interested enough to post something.

We had our usual romp Sunday afternoon. Upon inspection, no bruising to my penis, so she's now a fan of the Cherry Keeper vs. the nub. I've noticed a bit of a gap when I'm completely flaccid in the small, so I've ordered a Short with large headlock. She clearly has been reading this forum She promised a bit more teasing during the week. I'd appreciate that, I am still grateful that she continues to be interested in sex. You read so many tales of women who lose all interest in sex after menopause. I've got to give her credit for that, even if we have to work at it more than 30 years ago, she still has a fine time, that's important to me.

I was curious to see if my erections would continue to be firmer after wearing the Cherry Keeper vs, the Nub. Yep In fact, my sensitivity in general has increased. I've never had an issue with cumming to fast, the opposite, if anything, was true. But after 6 days in a Cherry Keeper with total touch stop, I almost went to far. I'll have to relearn how to pace myself. She still enjoys good ole PIV sex, I'm not complaining She's also been impressed with my stronger erections. I haven't had an orgasm without some nipple stim for 25 years or more. In fact, I thought I could no longer orgasm without it. This is no longer true. 6 days of no sensation and I was very ready and able to orgasm, luckily I was able to hold off.

Without any prodding by me, she is reading Male chastity a guide for Key Holders by Lucy Fairbourne So I really appreciate the effort she's putting in.

Things I forgot to add to my last post.
The Cherry Keeper base ring is far tighter than the HT3. 43MM x 38MM or about equal to 40.5MM ring in total area. There is a bit of chafing/pinching at the bottom of my scrotum, but nothing unbearable. Curiously, the sides of my testicles are a bit sore. I think since they can no longer hang and move freely, they are being chafed by walking or general movement. Nothing serious, I expect it to resolve as they get more used to the new position.

As I hoped, she has grown more comfortable with the idea of me being locked during the quarantine. She said she is no longer afraid that it might be discovered (in an unlikely trip to the ER) If it happens, she will simply deny any knowledge and tell them they have to cut it off! Well at least I'll be allowed to wear it pretty much 24/7. I put it back on Sunday night after our romp. I expect it to stay on until next Sunday afternoon. That's a good thing.

Well she is now officially a fan of keeping me locked up! On our evening walk yesterday, I asked her if she could think of any reason not to keep me locked as much as possible, she admitted she could not. My improved performance during our romps continues to surprise and delight us both. Positions that she enjoys and that have not been possible for years are possible once more. I mentioned that wearing the cage had knocked 10 years of age and medication off my performance, now I'll put it at 20 years. She was anxious to get me locked back up after our romp, I appreciate that, but there are definite positives for her. She did mention that she prefers me to the vixskin, a mixed blessing. While I like hearing that the vixskin is her favorite cock, I'll not deny that I enjoy good old PIV sex. There was no problem with being to sensitive this week, so I'm back to my normal performance level of years ago. Amazing what 5 weeks of denial and no sensation to my penis during the week can result in. It will be June before I have a chance of another orgasm, But that's a chance, there was some playful discussion of me begging to give up my June permission, I like things like that. I did mention that one of my current fantasies was just to go down on her (nothing else) during the week, before or after a foot rub, she seemed intrigued.

So, I've been wearing the Cherry Keeper for 12 days with a few hours out on each weekend to play. That's close enough to 24/7 for me. The minor discomforts have pretty much resolved. A bit of lotion on the sides of my balls has helped, and the bit of pinching feeling has gone away as my body has gotten used to wearing the device. I've even talked her into wearing the key on a necklace outside of her shirt on our evening walks. Slim chance that anyone will notice it, much less comment, but I like it. (people walking around the neighborhood is common here, so we see neighbors, even if we don't know their names)

Did I mention that she *really* screamed yesterday Oh yes, she is now officially a fan of locking me up

It's amazing how now the chastity device is our new normal. The only remaining issue is some nights I begin thrashing about in my sleep. This is new and basically coincides with wearing the device. It is a bit upsetting to her, at the very least she's afraid I may hit her. I have no explanation for this, but it seems logical that it is related to the device. Luckily, these incidents appear to becoming less frequent. I like wearing the device and I want to, so I have no clue as to what is going on while I'm asleep, and I have no memory of these events.

A couple of times in the last few weeks she has mentioned that she might not let me out of the device for our normal romp This both excites and scares me. I'm not sure if I want her to follow through on her threat or not. The fact that I don't get a vote is exciting. But it can sure change my demeanor when she mentions that she might not let me out while I'm mildly irritating/teasing her.

The Cherry Keeper short with large headlock has turned out to be a good fit. For the first time in months I am not considering buying something else. However, I ordered this one in black. After wearing it for 5 or 6 days, it left a clear black outline of the device on the head of my penis, so it's not color fast. It may fade over time. Luckily, a little extra washing removed the stains. Hopefully this will stop being an issue after awhile. It will be a week before I can see.

Si, it's been 7 weeks since my last orgasm. My record is 8. I recall having a small dull ache in my balls for about 2 weeks prior to that orgasm, this time, there is no ache. Could my body adjusted to fewer orgasms so quickly? Anyway, she is saying it will be father's day before I have a chance of another orgasm, that would be 12 weeks. She says she likes setting records Curious thing, I've asked her to consider letting me beg to be denied one more month on fathers day. (I like being told to beg for something that is against my apparent self interest) She told me I've almost talked her into it It does raise the question, in my warped mind, what is the real gift? Orgasm or more denial? I really don't have an answer. However, even if I have an orgasm on fathers day, if she continues to want to set records, it occurred to me that I have already had about half of my total orgasms for the year She continues to enjoy my improved performance, I though we might skip the Vixskin this weekend, but eventually, she requested it. "there's just something about it" Uh yes dear, it's a bit wider and at least half an inch longer But I like that she likes it.

She did mention that she almost didn't let me out this weekend for our normal romp, other people on here do it, "so what's my problem" Still not convinced I want her to do that, but I do like hearing it. And, it shows me that she is reading more than just my posts on here, I appreciate that. I did mention that if she decides to celebrate Loctober, that my vision of it was caged all month without being let out for anything, other than perhaps a cleaning. She has no trouble with NOvember, so I'll not offer any advice Since she does come on here occasionally to read my posts, it would be nice if she gave some feedback just sayin'

There was still some black residue from the cherry keeper on me again this week, but it was less than the prior week. I pulled out a toothbrush I use for cleaning and tried to scour the interior of the device, we'll see if it works...next week...I think.

We often spoon in bed, recently She said "it amuses me for you to try and rub your little nub against me, because I know you can't get erect or feel anything" Wow, small penis humiliation and denial in one sentence, she's getting to like this.
Well last weekend she decided that matching our record of 8 weeks was good enough, she got me close to the edge and then asked if I wanted to come...uh yes dear I really do...so she gave me permission. Just at the moment of orgasm, I suppose I was going for one really big thrust, I slipped out luckily, over 30 years of hand to hand experience allowed us to quickly resolve the problem So it wasn't ruined at all. Later that day, I let her cut my hair. AND THAT gentlemen is trust!
She left me out from Sunday afternoon to Tuesday morning, then it was "you need to be locked up" This has quickly become our new normal, she is expecting me to be locked. Somewhere along the line, she hid the envelope with the emergency key It was in full view in the dining room, now it's gone, she won't tell me where it is. So this past weekend started another period of denial. She had a nice orgasm from my tongue and a vibrator, we didn't pull out the vixskin, The upshot was more time for PIV fun over 40 minutes (with multiple full stops along the way) I got a bit worked up. Started begging her to set new records. She has no problem with that I need to invest in a good ball gag I think. She keeps saying "be careful what you ask for"
Anyway, she's going to visit our daughter for a week, she was debating weather or not to leave me locked while she was gone. It clearly wasn't much of a debate, Sunday afternoon she had me locked again. Over the years I have teased her about older women complimenting me on my yard. I've finally reached the age where if you're upright, have a job, and can cut your own yard, you're a catch. So when those ladies tell me I can "cut their yard anytime" I know what they're really saying (leer and a wink) She did mention as she locked me, that she didn't want to hear about the women down the street.
Looks like my fathers day present will be denial for another month...or two.

well it's been awhile since I updated this. So yes, she went out of town for a week, leaving me locked up with the emergency key hidden in the house. This also meant that we missed our normal weekend romp. Which means that I was locked 24/7 for two weeks. Did my caring and gentle wife inquire as to my status? Nope not once, this has become so much our "normal" that she didn't even think about it. However, at the end of two weeks, there was no odor or skin irritation. So proof of concept anyway, I can wear this indefinitely. Cleanliness is not an issue.

I really like the Cherry Keeper total touch stop. The honeycomb between the bars is open enough that I can get clean, but it does stop all other sensation. I've come to enjoy my morning erections, I can feel how sensitive my glans is as it presses up against the cage, and there's not a damn thing I can do about it. It would be great to rub up against her, or my hand, or the bed...but nope, not happening. I don't know why I like this, but I do.

So, our normal weekend romp the week before fathers day. She has hinted that I will get to orgasm for fathers day and that I will get another month of denial, so I'm not sure what to expect. So after a good bit of PIV stimulation, she say's "you might as well start begging me now not to let you come next week, since you're going to do it anyway" Did I mention that I need to invest in a good gag? Not only did I beg her not to let me orgasm on Fathers Day, I begged her not to let me out at all. I'll admit this does have a strange attraction to me.

So, Father's day rolls around, I have no idea what to expect. She did say once or twice, that she wasn't going to let me out at all. Eventually I protested that it wasn't fair to hold me to something I said when I was so aroused, so she let me out to get very clean. I think she does prefer me to the vixskin in some ways. Or maybe it's she enjoys how hard I am these days compared to when we weren't locking me up, a validation of some sort. Anyway she has consistently remarked that she likes good ole PIV. I find it hard to argue the point. She did tell me to beg for a gift, except orgasm!, so I begged to be allowed to go down on her during the week. "Hmm, Nothing for you?" yep, just me going down. "I might be able to do that" Now I'll just have to see if she remembers. We also discussed how I've had 4 orgasms this year, which would mean around 8 for the year, that's way too many... Now we entered into this with the agrement that I would get one permission per month, now 8 is "way too many" She said maybe I could look forward to Labor day That would be 14 to 15 weeks of denial. My current record is 8 weeks Seems like a significant increase...

I introduced the concept of FLR to her years ago, not much has really come of it. Lately, my motivation has been lacking. But Monday she left clear instructions on a few cleaning issues that needed to be done if I thought there was any chance of play during the week...