Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived
Posted: Thu Apr 04, 2019 10:31 pm
@devoted2Her and @sherulestherooster- thank you both for kind comments and compliments on my writing style. When I read erotica I will be either totally enthralled with the story after reading the first two lines or I will stop reading the story at that point. If grammar, spelling, or sentence structure make the story hard to read, I don't even give it another second of my attention. So I take pride in my writing style. Thank you.Devoted2Her wrote: ↑Sun Mar 31, 2019 6:31 am @chaste_cock ... I am hetero and never have really watched or read gay porn ... but that was very well written and very erotic. I think what clicked in my mind was that you were being thoroughly dominated, almost used. Thanks for sharing.
sherulestherooster wrote: ↑Wed Apr 03, 2019 12:44 pm I'm in the same boat - gay erotica and porn doesn't do a lot for me ("forced bi" is another story), but I agree that his writing is very erotic. Strikes me as borderline abusive, but since they've been doing this for three years I would imagine that they have a good idea as to limits and they both simply enjoy what they're doing. Good for them.
I enjoy the recount of events and will keep reading as long as he keeps posting. Would be interesting to get the keyholder's take on things, down the road. Maybe a guest post discussing what he gets out of dominating his partner so much.
Cheers
sherulestherooster
You are correct as to the times when he can be dominate, but believe me, I am still in charge of my body. I am very confident in what I like and don't like, even when I am in the sub role. As far as "almost used" or "abused", there has never been a time when I wasn't in full agreement. His control is what turns me on when we are in the bedroom or any place where we are having sex. I have actually gotten him moving into the Dom role more and more. He is still learning but is doing a great job. Any other time in our relationship, we are so much on level terms. We argue, we disagree, I keep him accountable and he keeps me accountable. Even when in our Dom/sub roles, there is no question as to the love between us. That's what keeps us going.
I will be posting again in the near future. I hope both you continue to get enjoyment out of my writing our chastity experiences. I'm also glad that my writing transcends gay/straight erotica. We are all sexual beings. There are different things that turn us all on and we are very lucky that we aren't confined to one mode of turn-ons.
@sherulestherooster - that was a very good idea to get my Dom husband on to give his side of his Dom role and his view of our experiences that I write about. We will see if I can talk him into it. I might have to relinquish an allowance to cum or be on the receiving end of more extended nipple play for him to do it, but I'll take on for the team. It is amazing how some pain goes from pain to "oh god, yes", in a matter of seconds.