Re: Keyholder Forum
Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2015 1:34 am
First, I have no idea where to post this, so please accept my apologies if the location of my question is inappropriate.
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I'm thankful to have found this site. My wife and I have been experimenting on and off with Chastity for several years (+-6) till a few months ago.
Last week we ordered a JB which means it's going to be a while before it arrives. Currently, we have no device.
We used to have a CB6s which she didn't really like. We had an instance when it cracked open and pinched me rather badly (I was lying down when it happened, so very little damage). I repaired it, but she was never comfortable with it after that.
I was also into BDSM before we met and after getting married, I KNOW I sprung this on her way too quickly so she got scared off. I really want chastity to work for us as it's a bit of a compromise on both our parts... not to mention the financial investment we have made for the JB.
Although my wife went along with my suggestion at getting a new device, I think she could really benefit from connecting with other KH who are like her and have more vanilla tastes. She assures me that she has no problem with locking me up and she says that she's willing to take the lead (in the bedroom).
When I probed little and asked if she'd read any material I gave her about being a KH, her reply was that she wasn't as into it as me. I'm really think there's more for her to get out of this arrangement and I feel she may be missing out.
I would love to get her plugged into a community of real people with whom she can open up to.
Suggestions and advice would be great!!!
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I'm thankful to have found this site. My wife and I have been experimenting on and off with Chastity for several years (+-6) till a few months ago.
Last week we ordered a JB which means it's going to be a while before it arrives. Currently, we have no device.
We used to have a CB6s which she didn't really like. We had an instance when it cracked open and pinched me rather badly (I was lying down when it happened, so very little damage). I repaired it, but she was never comfortable with it after that.
I was also into BDSM before we met and after getting married, I KNOW I sprung this on her way too quickly so she got scared off. I really want chastity to work for us as it's a bit of a compromise on both our parts... not to mention the financial investment we have made for the JB.
Although my wife went along with my suggestion at getting a new device, I think she could really benefit from connecting with other KH who are like her and have more vanilla tastes. She assures me that she has no problem with locking me up and she says that she's willing to take the lead (in the bedroom).
When I probed little and asked if she'd read any material I gave her about being a KH, her reply was that she wasn't as into it as me. I'm really think there's more for her to get out of this arrangement and I feel she may be missing out.
I would love to get her plugged into a community of real people with whom she can open up to.
Suggestions and advice would be great!!!