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So., for me, wife will not play, but tolerates my desire to wear a device. I’ve tried a few, landed with a ss super small from china. Sometimes I think that This time I just accidentally bought the perfect size and fit! No pinching no falling out. So long as I keep hair short around the ring, no pul...

I had a feeling we would see you again..
And yes it really was a long good by.,so ..what to talk about now?? lol
Welcome back.,you are always a fun read..

I’m still new to this, and flying solo. But, stick around., there is plenty of good advice here. I might offer a thought.,,slow down, first work with your partner to get a proper fitting device.sounds like the gap between the ring and cage is too wide, and please keep in mind that there is no inesca...

Can’t seem to get a full understanding of the dynamic on this one.,
I’m 15 pounds from my goal weight. Down 55 over 2 years.,
No quotas.,self locking, self wiping., no whipping. This works for me..lol

I wear one because l like the kink of being “kept “ for wife. I can do honor system for a while, I cannot do honor system long term easily alone.... Wife not interested in M C at all. So the kink is for me to challenge myself to stay caged between out love making. Every month or so,, I’m tired of no...

Also a grower, Always amazed that it all can be fit into such a small device. Anyway.., The results I get are similar to yours..., however, I do not get more than a meager effort of an erection unless stimulated in some way. I went with a super small stainless basket style. I bathe and clean, works ...

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I personally wouldn't start with a Hitachi, those things are intense and likely just to scare the hell out of her. The Hitachi still scares my wife and she's a seasoned toy user. I would start with something small and not intimidating i.e. a little bullet vibrator. You can play around outside with ...

Ohhh having him write me stories about something that interests him or a fantasy he's had etc is also a way to get things out there and create conversation and also it gets you guys thinking and usually hard in your cages while you write. hehe 😉 Very true. I’ve written out a few for my lovely wife....

Even if she is slow coming around to trying it , at least you are being open and honest about it. Realize too that she may be a while.. maybe never.., read , learn, be patient...