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by gungadn
Sat Feb 12, 2022 12:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: An Introduction, and questions on my plans
Replies: 10
Views: 2617

Re: An Introduction, and questions on my plans

To quote Tom Allen in other threads.... "I'm going to go on record here to say that your husband is reading too much porn. The stuff that he mentioned, that it will make him a better husband, that he'll be more attentive, that he'll do chores, whatever, is all part of the "men need chastit...
by gungadn
Sat Feb 12, 2022 12:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ball Squeeze
Replies: 20
Views: 8250

Re: Ball Squeeze

I have a custom stainless device. I ordered it with 2 different rings. There is only 2mm of difference between the 2 rings. But, it makes all the difference in the world. I wear the larger one in the winter to keep things comfortable when everything rides high and tight. Then, during warm weather wh...
by gungadn
Wed Feb 09, 2022 6:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Riding my bike
Replies: 3
Views: 797

Re: Riding my bike

does anyone have any advice or suggestions? Thanks First suggestion is to utilize the Search box at the upper right. This has been discussed many times and there are a lot of suggestions for different cage options or different bike seats you can try. Easier to search the existing resources than to ...
by gungadn
Wed Feb 09, 2022 11:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not wearing for a length of time?
Replies: 3
Views: 718

Re: Not wearing for a length of time?

Has anyone had to not wear your cage (for whatever reason) for a substantial length of time? Actually, just coming off of one. Our situation is one of my wife is supportive of my desires. But, she is not and probably never will be a strict keyholder. My desires ebb and flow and because she doesnt f...
by gungadn
Wed Feb 09, 2022 10:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: But what do I get out of this?
Replies: 143
Views: 41322

Re: But what do I get out of this?

Tom Allen wrote: Tue Feb 08, 2022 9:37 pm Excellent thread with a lot of good perspectives in here.
I am glad its been revived. And, I miss WW's perspective. Wish she had stayed active for more than a couple of months.
I was surprised to find comments from ME in this thread. Guess I have been a lurker for a very long time.
by gungadn
Fri Feb 04, 2022 3:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Have you ever spotted a keyholder?
Replies: 25
Views: 18101

Re: Have you ever spotted a keyholder?

Be careful with your assumptions -- you dont want to make a mistake and make someone uncomfortable that is not involved in our kink:

https://fortuneandframe.com/blogs/news/ ... y-necklace

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by gungadn
Thu Feb 03, 2022 12:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question on approaching wife
Replies: 31
Views: 5804

Re: Question on approaching wife

Hesitate to post, because even after 15 years of trying, I have accepted my wife will never truly "take control" like the women in the fantasies we all read. But, we have come to a comfortable place for us. This is just my experience, I'm glad different techniques worked for different peop...
by gungadn
Thu Feb 03, 2022 12:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question on approaching wife
Replies: 31
Views: 5804

Re: Question on approaching wife

spaniel86 wrote: Mon Jan 31, 2022 4:04 am Now that would be an interesting question to know about everyone’s hiding places be that from their spouses or from their curious kids!
I have a fireproof safe in my home office for protecting important documents. But, it seems to have plenty of space for other things I dont want found as well.
by gungadn
Mon Sep 27, 2021 5:02 pm
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish
Replies: 116
Views: 1008247

Re: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish

Sign me up please!
by gungadn
Tue Jan 12, 2021 1:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long have you been married?
Replies: 100
Views: 50347

Re: How long have you been married?

23 years. I've been interested in chastity for most of that time. Introduced her to it probably 10 + years. But, went about it entirely the wrong way the first couple of goes.... We are in a comfortable place now where she knows about my fetish and is "supportive" of it. She enjoys taking ...