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by Jon Descer
Tue Mar 29, 2022 9:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it safe to edge while locked up??
Replies: 5
Views: 2899

Re: Is it safe to edge while locked up??

I'd say no, unless it hurts like crazy or you find yourself developing edema after prolonged erection. But then you probably need a better fitting cage.
by Jon Descer
Tue Mar 29, 2022 9:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Don't we all need straps to hold cage closer to the body?
Replies: 10
Views: 6375

Re: Don't we all need straps to hold cage closer to the body?

We found some nylon straps on Etsy that are comfortable and can go in the shower and are basically dry with the towel. Any chance you could share a link or a seller name? I've wanted something like that for a while. To those not understanding why, it's to keep things more in place. Even with a fitt...
by Jon Descer
Fri Jul 16, 2021 10:50 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: What cheap ass metal Aliexpress PA device is "good enough"
Replies: 2
Views: 1112

Re: What cheap ass metal Aliexpress PA device is "good enough"

If there was a device that was easy to wear for long periods, cheap, hygienic, and secure, WITH a PA, it'd be the only device anyone bought. Sadly, there is no such miracle device. At least not consistently; you might get lucky and find a cheap device that just happens to fit you perfectly in every ...
by Jon Descer
Fri Jul 16, 2021 10:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Buttplug while locked / soft
Replies: 5
Views: 6008

Re: Buttplug while locked / soft

I've considered glass myself but I am too paranoid, especially since I don't want some massive base that digs in to the cheeks, but a narrower handle just gives me willies. I can actually handle one that large myself, but I have to work up to it, not just plop it right in, which is why I hope the OP...
by Jon Descer
Wed Jul 14, 2021 7:16 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Full belt owners / users
Replies: 1
Views: 1952

Re: Full belt owners / users

Afraid not. Much too expensive, although I've looked at those particular belts before. I also don't have an absolutely consistent waist size. And I worry about cleanliness.
by Jon Descer
Wed Jul 14, 2021 7:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity cage cleaning
Replies: 27
Views: 5678

Re: Chastity cage cleaning

As said, safety is more important than kink; if it's feeling BAD, or you legitimately think you can't clean it, then she needs to take it off so you can clean it (or she can even clean you while your hands are tied, or something). I've seen pics of guys who got an infection in their cage--it's not p...
by Jon Descer
Wed Jul 14, 2021 7:08 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Porn? What type?
Replies: 4
Views: 1261

Re: Porn? What type?

On most sites now, you can find a list of video "tags", and I find that is a better way to browse, FYI. There are usually hundreds of tags. The main problem with porn, to me, is that most of them are kind of stupid and then there's mindless sex (where it's loud, lots of bodily fluids, form...
by Jon Descer
Wed Jul 14, 2021 6:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Buttplug while locked / soft
Replies: 5
Views: 6008

Re: Buttplug while locked / soft

That's alot; hope you have spent the time to get your muscles used to relaxing back there. I have sometimes worn one for hours, or most of a day. Problem is that it makes me want to empty my bowels more often; it's often messy upon removal if it's been in that long and I've been, you know, eating; a...
by Jon Descer
Sat Jun 26, 2021 12:01 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Chastity cage with attached ball stretcher
Replies: 4
Views: 1825

Re: Chastity cage with attached ball stretcher

Because I'm a shill, I always take this kind of opportunity to recommend Male Chastity Now--Mark will, in my experience, make whatever kind of modifications to his devices that you want, so long as you pay a reasonable up-charge and give clear instructions and measurements. If you can use, say, a ba...
by Jon Descer
Fri Jun 25, 2021 11:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time
Replies: 8
Views: 1987

Re: Question about orgasming after being denied for a long time

I have two thoughts on that; one is that orgasm denial is just a very strange thing. It's not really "natural" and our bodies and brains process it differently. I've read all sorts of weird experiences people have had. The other, more practical answer is that I wonder if something was off ...