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- Fri Aug 24, 2018 8:54 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Lost motivation
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3546
Re: Lost motivation
There's a fundamental flaw in the "get a PA" argument. If the OPs wife isn't interested in his chastity now, she is unlikely to become interested in the future, it's not like this was an overnight thing, it has been ongoing for "a few years". All a PA will achieve is that the OP ...
- Fri Jul 27, 2018 4:41 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Nocturnal Issues
- Replies: 19
- Views: 5818
Re: Nocturnal Issues
I can only assume that the device isn't correctly sized. If the tip of your penis touches the end of the cage, and the diameter of the cage means it gently touches the sides of the penis, then you won't get the "pulling" problem as the shaft cannot expand and extend - an erection simply do...
- Tue Jun 26, 2018 3:25 am
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Getting the Sizing Right
- Replies: 26
- Views: 7561
Re: Getting the Sizing Right
Go for the solid A ring, avoids all the problems of a hinged ring. I was a bit doubtful about a solid ring, having worries about needing to get the fire service out with bolt cutters, or a rapid visit to A&E! But if you know you fit into a particular plastic device A ring, that size will work wi...
- Wed Feb 21, 2018 5:29 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: new to chastity
- Replies: 9
- Views: 4554
Re: new to chastity
I don't know, he's not really acting like the 'classic' troll type. At a first guess, judging by the writing- run-on sentences and a lack of punctuation, I'd have to say poorly educated and/or not very bright. There could be a remote chance that it is our multi-alias pal with a new schtick, but I'm...
- Mon Jan 22, 2018 10:27 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Some input on my (our) situation
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3565
Re: Some input on my (our) situation
A few ideas,not all from my own experience get a custom device that fits properly - for example a MM JailBird - mine stops erections ever starting, so I get none of the night-time problems. If the OPs wife is too easy to persuade, try adding an extra level of separation - for example, if she works a...
- Thu Jan 11, 2018 10:49 am
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Shopping for a Jail Bird
- Replies: 25
- Views: 10859
Re: Shopping for a Jail Bird
Can we discuss gap for a moment? It looks like MM goes with 3/8 inch as a standard. Has anyone taken caliper in hand and compared their designed gap to actual measurements. I wonder if the gap is measured along the locking post or is it at the widest point down at the bottom? What are the drawbacks...
- Wed Jan 10, 2018 4:52 am
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Shopping for a Jail Bird
- Replies: 25
- Views: 10859
Re: Shopping for a Jail Bird
One negative about the lock (at least the type MM ships) is that it has very sharp corners. you can take a file to the corners, don't get too enthusiastic, but I have successfully removed any sharp edges with a smooth file (as opposed to a medium or the picturesquely named "bastard" file)
- Mon Jan 08, 2018 5:06 pm
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Shopping for a Jail Bird
- Replies: 25
- Views: 10859
Re: Shopping for a Jail Bird
oval or round ? I used the round ring on a CB6000S and have the oval ring on a JailBird. I'd go with the oval. You could get the round ring and make it oval, you just need some so masking tape to protect the steel and a strong vice, then tighten the vice ! You could reverse the process if it doesn't...
- Wed Jan 03, 2018 9:02 am
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Is it just me ?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2537
Is it just me ?
I've posted quite a bit recently, so some of you will know I have a JailBird, and was trying for 24/7 lockup for something approaching 3 months. I won't re-visit the reasons here. But I find wearing the JailBird all the time well-nigh impossible. The problem is I get discomfort along the lower half ...
- Wed Jan 03, 2018 4:36 am
- Forum: The Journey
- Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
- Replies: 11
- Views: 7740
Re: [_lj_] a new beginning
One could get very philosophical about dominance/submission, and everyone has a different interpretation and how it fits into their relationship. You only have to read some of the posts on the BDSM-orientated sites to see what is cynically called "The Twoo Way" where someone decides ONLY t...