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I've been out of sorts this week, but realized that I have been pressure on myself to change a whole host of habits at once this summer. The result has been that abstaining hasn't immediately pumped my drive as it usually does. But I am on day 4 right now, which is at least some progress. The weeken...

I am curious about sizing. Almost ready to buy after mulling a long time. Worried expectations will be too high.

Thanks. Almost a decade of pregnancy and nursing is winding down, and things have started to pick up. It is hard to be patient and we both have a lot of demands, but I am optimstic. I used to workout a lot and want to pick that back up. It is interesting how tough it can be to communicate. She's qui...

Bedtime has majorly stressed me out since having kids several years ago and our differences in schedule have become more of an issue. Having multiple sleep issues adds to it---so being in the "guest" bedroom with very little stimulus other than morning light helps.

When do others tend to fall off the wagon? Ironically, I have an easier time giving up the wanking when my sex drive is a little higher. When I feel anxious, I use the late night wank to cut the tension. After a certain length of time, it ends up being neither effective nor enjoyable. Diminishing re...

Life getting in the way can throw everything off balance. I seriously didn't want to do the wank before sleep thing last night, but caved after 5 or so days. The part I like least is trying to get myself in the mood when I am tired so that I can reset my stream of consiousness, rather than just reac...

Maybe some men view horniness as an itch that needs to be scratched, but I love the extra energy I get when I abstain from having an orgasm for more than a few days. My wife is sometimes "in" to this, but it is never anything that is really forced or enforced. Unfortunately, I am also an i...

Thanks. I figure I got to come up with some way to beat the cycle (not at all unique to me) of: work, work some more, take care of the kids, work some more after that, see if I can orgasm before falling asleep, and repeat the next day.

Here's one aspect---guys tend to be way more into to this than their wives (there are exceptions, of course). Depending on how other things are going, my wife's attitude ranges from tolerance to something she thinks is fun to something she can view as tedious. A lot of guys worry about being "l...

I have been interested in Chastity for about half my life---since in college. The last few years, I notice that I go through these streaks where I essentially "diet" from having orgasms---and feel a real boost in energy and sex drive. Some people may not like feeling very horny---like it i...