Chastity Forums

No problem after the first few weeks.

Having two chastity devices with hinged rings, two with solid rings and the CB6000s type ring, I am wondering why does anyone bother with hinged rings? A solid ring is easy to get into and out of. I had thought that a solid ring would be a problem for many years but when I tried it, I liked it. Hing...

Does it count as BDSM if your partner doesn't think it is? My wife thinks she's vanilla. Same with my wife. She even thought she was vanilla when she was having sex with women and engaged in some of the more esoteric fetishes. I asked her after 42 years if she thought of herself as bisexual and she...

Tom Allen wrote:Isn't "orgasm control" necessarily an activity? Or am I missing something?

Yes, which is why it is there. I thought of leaving it off but if all that the guy is doing, he would have no option to select.

That is a great device. I have looked at their devices and will probably get one next year. I like toys. :) The only problem I have is that I used to like to watch porn and get hard, get soft and then repeat. Almost like edging myself. Now it is just plain uncomfortable to watch porn as I have no mo...

Update. Stayed locked up during sex. My wife rubbed it in by having an intense orgasm. The Jailbird fits me like a glove and there is no break-in period required. I got the measurements correct which is the key to a good fit. It feels less obtrusive than my other devices and for some reason I do not...

Women, you can't live with them and you, well, you can't live with them. :) I did talk to my wife about having me give her more orgasms than BOB, her battery operated buddy. She made me shave off my beard because it chaffed her thighs. So we will see how that goes. On the other hand, now that I got ...

It only took 5 weeks from date of order to delivery of my Jailbird from Mature Metal. It is a joy to finally wear a device that fits me like a glove. The tip of my penis just about touches the end of the cage which means no more erections like I could get in all the other devices which were too long...

Interesting, chastity with pop quizzes . :) We are old fashioned. We still talk to each other. Worked for over 40 years so why stop now? I will admit that we do email each other at times but that is mostly because we are passing along a link or excerpt from a web site. For long distance fetish play ...

Never did this or heard of such a thing but whatever works for you is good. We just talk and certainly do not grade each other on responses, even if it is just a pass/fail grade. :) On those occasions that I email my wife, I tend to be less formal in my writing. I only write formally when I am writi...