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by Xileh
Wed Sep 28, 2022 11:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: wonder why
Replies: 8
Views: 3136

Re: wonder why

I have not had that experience on CM. Yes, there are all kinds of orientations present. And because of that, people tend to be quite accepting and get called out if they are not. There are also many heterosexuals as well in the FLR and Vanilla forums. The key to acceptance, is the person making the ...
by Xileh
Wed Sep 28, 2022 11:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: locked and forgot?
Replies: 19
Views: 31822

Re: locked and forgot?

This is an older post, but is such a common concern. I would ask two questions: 1. While you are locked, are there other displays of affection; hugging, kissing, etc. unrelated to kink. Just your normal peck on the cheek in the kitchen? If you answer yes, it is likely she is just not interested in c...
by Xileh
Tue Sep 27, 2022 9:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity/FLR Agreement
Replies: 5
Views: 3477

Chastity/FLR Agreement

Today I planned to detail my wife's car. Full engine, suspension, exterior, trim, and interior detail. She offered to move my pickup out of the driveway to make room for me to work. I expected she would back out, and re-park next to the curb in front of the house. She backed out, and was gone for mo...
by Xileh
Sat Sep 24, 2022 4:40 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Sam3655] I’ve put it out there
Replies: 166
Views: 939172

Re: [Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

Mrs Xileh, who is a voracious reader and likes chastity, doesn’t really care to read FLR or chastity books. I’ve been very careful selecting a couple, but it hasn’t caught on yet. I have sent her links to a number of podcasts and she liked those. We also watched a streaming class about developing do...
by Xileh
Sat Sep 24, 2022 4:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5514
Views: 2155033

Re: "Hello world" thread

Hello, I am reintroducing myself. I’ve been around for about four years, but haven’t posted for a while. We have been using chastity full time within a FLR. I have a custom MCN cage and a few others that I have modified and rewelded. The MCN is my full time cage. Our marriage was suffering due to li...
by Xileh
Mon Apr 27, 2020 7:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keys left out. Should thisbe upsetting me?
Replies: 16
Views: 6717

Re: Keys left out. Should thisbe upsetting me?

It would help us respond if you told us what you hope to get out of chastity, and what she gets out of it.
by Xileh
Sun Apr 26, 2020 10:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How much, on how many, and over how long?
Replies: 31
Views: 10271

Re: How much, on how many, and over how long?

About $350. An MCN Contender and an A272.
by Xileh
Mon Apr 20, 2020 8:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Irritation problems with chastity
Replies: 7
Views: 3975

Re: Irritation problems with chastity

I would second the opinion on an open stainless steel cage. They are much easier to keep clean. If you try a Chinese device, make sure it is true stainless steel. Some are chrome plated and should be avoided. With a good fitting cage, you should be able to wear it indefinitely. I guess that is a goo...
by Xileh
Mon Nov 18, 2019 10:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Massages - deep tissue / sport
Replies: 5
Views: 4437

Re: Massages - deep tissue / sport

I get massages monthly and am always caged. I do wear briefs. There was one time she firmly brushed against it and I doubt she missed it. It hasn’t changed anything as far as I can tell.
by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Caged while riding a Motorcycle
Replies: 9
Views: 2856

Re: Caged while riding a Motorcycle

I think it will depend greatly on the type of riding you do. Are you riding on a cruiser, or a more aggressive, bent forward style like a sport bike? Additionally, as a veteran of many 1000 mile days, completely removing my Aerostich for bathroom breaks every 200 miles would be a royal pain and a ti...