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by Tom Allen
Thu Dec 28, 2023 7:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Big question.
Replies: 21
Views: 79300

Re: The Big question.

Okay, I thought about this. The reason why it's hard to explain is because the question has an answer, and a meta answer. The answer is "Of course I want to be unlocked and have an orgasm." I mean who doesn't? But the meta answer; that is, the explanation when you step outside of the situa...
by Tom Allen
Wed Dec 27, 2023 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Big question.
Replies: 21
Views: 79300

Re: The Big question.

🤣 Mrs Edge is not the introspective type, so at some point she just accepted that denying me just turned me on. She came to feel that it wasn't harming me and that in fact, it led to more fun for her. Since she was already intrigued by the idea from the start it was not as much of a leap for her. We...
by Tom Allen
Wed Dec 27, 2023 7:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Big question.
Replies: 21
Views: 79300

Re: The Big question.

"Your denial of something I want makes me feel owned and controlled, like a wild animal you have put on a leash." "When you deny me, I am full of want and desire for you, which makes me feel like we are just dating again." 🤷‍♂️ I dunno, I can't really explain it to my wife either...
by Tom Allen
Tue Nov 21, 2023 5:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5524
Views: 2397788

Re: "Hello world" thread

And hey, the name of the bunny was so difficult. Back in 2010, a number of us were disappointed at the lack of a place where people who were not into bdsm, sissy, humiliation, etc., could hang out and talk about being locked. We found a web board that was not moderated and asked the owner if we cou...
by Tom Allen
Thu Nov 16, 2023 10:41 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish
Replies: 116
Views: 1000095

Re: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish

wchm wrote: Thu Nov 16, 2023 8:54 am

Me too please.
You're already added.
by Tom Allen
Thu Nov 16, 2023 8:36 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish
Replies: 116
Views: 1000095

Re: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish

NewKeyholderUK wrote: Thu Nov 16, 2023 7:51 am Please make me a kinkster!
All set!
by Tom Allen
Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Honor system: what's the proof that you've stayed faithful ?
Replies: 7
Views: 16472

Re: Honor system: what's the proof that you've stayed faithful ?

Does a cage prevent you from "cheating"? It works just about as much as a wedding ring does.
by Tom Allen
Fri Oct 27, 2023 9:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity ceremony- First time introduction
Replies: 10
Views: 20662

Re: Chastity ceremony- First time introduction

HI. Couple of thoughts. 1st- Totally looking on the other side of the coin here, but is there any chance the person posting this is trying to discuss this as a staged ceremony where the significant other has already agreed to act out her part? So maybe the those posts / blog entries can be shared w...
by Tom Allen
Wed Oct 25, 2023 9:32 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!
Replies: 67
Views: 139098

Re: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!

Hey everybody - Locktober is almost over, and we are still a little shy of our funding goal. We don't take any advertising, and the admins still run this as an all-volunteer operation.

Not nagging, mind you. Just bringing it to your attention.

And thank you again to all who have supported this.
by Tom Allen
Tue Oct 24, 2023 8:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity ceremony- First time introduction
Replies: 10
Views: 20662

Re: Chastity ceremony- First time introduction

This show so much lack of insight that it's tempted to encourage him to do this, and then report back to let us know how it went. 😂