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Thanks for the advice. I made it the whole night without any problems. My main issues were being mentally buzzed. Almost no discomfort. Wearing it at night actually makes a lor of sense---lower risk of things rubbing the wrong way.

I guess I am anxious about sudden discomfort. I suppose bed is a fairly safe place to try. I think she likes the idea of holding the key if I am not in discomfort, which hasn't been an issue in 3 or so hours. It is an unusual feeling.

Well, wife and I have taken another step. I dusted off a CB-2000 that has been idle for many, many years. I thought that would be a good experiment rather than running out and buying steel right away. She is wearing the key. We are laying in bed. I asked her if she should unlock me. "Why? Is it...

I have seldom wanked while watching porn. Usually rely on fantasies. I view porn and wanking as the junk food of my sex life. Not particularly good for me, but sometimes I need a fix. Get too reliant on it, and pretty soon you are going to be flabby. It is much more abundant than it used to be, but ...

I am giving the CB-2000 (hello 10 years ago) a whirl tonight for a few hours while cleaning the house. My wife has the keys. I am glad she is game. I am a little anxious about "things" being not quite where they normally are, and rubbing certain ways. If things are fun, maybe we will try s...

the plastic pins in the cb----- devices can have a little bit of a gap in this, and I have had this happen. One reason I am intrigued by steel.

I have pulled out my old CB-2000, and notice that the plastic pins have some give, which if I remember, allowed my balls to slip through. I haven't tried to pass it all though the ring in a long time, so maybe we will see this weekend.

I think I first read a story about tease and denial in Penthouse when I was high school that peaked my interest. It was a phony letter asking if it would be too cruel for a woman to make her lover wait several months or year before allowing him to climax. She had noticed that he was much more respon...

I think the science is sketchy on that point. Some people believe that skin contact and even nonsexual affection will release the Oxytocin. I tend to believe that orgasms cause good bonding too. But I also notice the strong need to replace this with other behaviors (eg massages) during MC.

Totally relate to that, as well as that about 5-14 days are toughest. I am on 7 days right now. Part of it is just working through things, but if you can direct your focus somewhere else-like hard work or exercise, it helps. Also, focusing energy away from the pussy helps. Massaging my wife and her ...