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I like it. I think some couples do it by the KH simply setting the device out to be seen. I kind of like the idea that you leave it out at all times. Then it's really clear it's not "out of sight, out of mind". Your KH sees it every day, and has to give at least a tiny moment's thought to ...

And for those of us titillated by dates and milestones, I got all hot and bothered, and wrote some fiction this morning.

mikecb

I'm of two minds on keeping track. On the one hand, I think keeping track may start to apply subtle pressure to the KH. If she really wants to enjoy the control, and feel free of obligation, keeping track may conflict with that. On the other hand, as a wearer, I am titillated immensely by the keepin...

I've had this happen too. I think that wearing a trapped-ball device can sometimes lead to protracted durations of swollen scrotum. The skin stretches to accommodate. Then, when you remove the device, that outer layer sluffs off a bit. When I feel this coming on, I put a bit of lotion on my balls. T...

I can definitely identify with the "Hitting the wall" aspect with some erotica. There are a lot of things I used to read that are totally boring to me now. Other things that used to be a turn-off that now arouse me. Our tastes change, I suppose.

I agree with the issue, here. It's one of the reasons I chose to use an (unfilled) picture of my Lori tube as my avatar. First impressions matter, and I think your avatar is often the first impression someone gets. I don't think I want to make that first impression with my schlong.... (schlort?) mik...

I agree, with thumper. There are times when I masturbate, just to reduce my sex drive, so that I can concentrate on more practical matters.

poor wrote:Having a moisturising routine for my ballsack tops my list.

Amen, brother! lol

Hi lmf, I'm a tad behind on my reading, and just found this thread. I agree with the comments above about communication. There is no guideline for "doing it right" other than doing something that gives each of you satisfaction. That can vary immensely for different couples. If you're reall...

I wonder if you're having airflow problems. The CB3000 doesn't breathe very well. I've had issues with chaffing and dry skin when I've worn mine for a length of time. It might be time to consider a device with more airflow, like a Jailbird,or something.

mikecb