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I highly suggest Sarah Jameson's book "Be Careful What You Wish For" as it does an incredible job of explaining enforced chastity in a non-threatening manner. It is specifically written for the EXACT situation you are in. 90% of the book is written for your wife, not for you, and will help...

I have a similar issue with the scar tissue and flare ups. I can tell you that with the Steelworxx Steelheart, I have not had any issues... so that may resolve the problem.

Last week I was allowed an orgasm after a moderate length lock-up (69 days). As is usual, I was tied spread eagle to the bed and Jewels had complete control. After she finally allowed me to orgasm, she moved up so that I could lick her clean. Instead of just sitting on my face, as she has done in th...

Generally my wife will set a not before date, meaning that I will not be released before that date or event occurs. One of the longest was an October day when my parents told us that they were taking our family with them to Hawaii the next June. My wife looked at me and whispered "well, now we ...

It sounds to me like the biggest problem is that his definition of manly and your definition are different. For my wife and I, I could care less about fitting the societal definition of manly, so long as my wife thinks I am the man for her.

I have had a Steelworks Steelheart for three years now and have never experienced any problems with the lock. When you experienced the problem, did you try something like WD-40 to release any materials that might have gotten lodged in the lock? Also, for the long periods, was it 100% locked for that...

My wife and I have used a strap-on for a while now as a replacement for PIV intercourse while I am locked. While she enjoys it, one of her complaints is that the replacement is not as warm as the real thing. This takes away from her being able to view it as a complete replacement like we had hoped. ...

During the initial period of lockup after an extended break, I wake up about 3-4 times a night. It takes about 2 weeks for my body to adjust to being locked up, at which time the night erections seem to go away.

My wife LOVES keys, in particular unique antique skeleton keys. Because of this, it is only natural for her to wear a necklace with a key. For a while she wore the actual key to the integrated lock on my steelheart device. She stopped doing that in favor of wearing one of several skeleton key pendan...

I just discussed this question with my wife this evening, as we are starting a new period of enforced chastity after a long break. The answer was a mixed bag... I am allowed, even encouraged, to ask/beg for sex/orgasms while not engaged in any intimate activity, but while we are playing I am not all...