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by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Don't Cum Challenge
Replies: 7
Views: 4308
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Re: Don't Cum Challenge

Could you adapt the website edgemeplease to your specific aims? The edging task can be made quite difficult and the longest setting is around 80 minutes. You also have the option of the site commanding you not to cum at the end. You could use another method, perhaps dice, to see how many time a day ...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?
Replies: 3
Views: 1857
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Re: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?

Hi Jon, I don't want to get you arrested, or labelled a perv, but I get very aroused at the thought that I'll be caught by someone. As well as a cage I like panties and hosiery, so I might for instance wear holdups or tights with ankle showing and no socks, with the thought it will be noticed (it ha...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:09 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"
Replies: 8
Views: 4491
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Re: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"

Yes I wear a kilt, made with my Clan's tartan. Nothing underneath except a cage - not even a pube. It does mean a little care when sitting, or doing a Highland Fling. Sadly the kilt joke's already been done, but here's another: Q - How do you know if a guy is a genuine Scotsman? A - Feel under his k...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 14
Views: 4921
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Re: Struggling with some feelings

Hi Savannah, Some good advice on here, but I think that in identifying the factors in your upbringing that have coloured your attitudes to sex you've made a good start in addressing them. It's a long journey though from knowing intellectually to emotionally overcoming a thing. Some advice deals with...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 8:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?
Replies: 13
Views: 6992
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Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

I've been into chastity now for around two and a half years, and the intensity has escalated. There has been a drop-off this year for a couple of months (Her not me), but She's come back with a will for Locktober. Long-term orgasm denial quickly became a primary goal for me; one I achieved in 2018 (...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 7:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lock failure - BCWYWF!
Replies: 4
Views: 2707
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Re: Lock failure - BCWYWF!

AS Tom says when he mentions that chastity is more in the head than the truly inescapable, we're not perhaps as secure as we imagine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uEYveSssok
by Steve2059
Sun Oct 06, 2019 7:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: And it ends...
Replies: 11
Views: 3604
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Re: And it ends...

My wife has never agreed to try a strap-on and dislikes anything that's not flesh inside her. Our usual MO is that I'll be caged and pleasure her on demand in the way She chooses, but if She wants PIV then out I come, either just for the event or perhaps for a day or two. Sometimes She wants to watc...
by Steve2059
Sun Oct 06, 2019 7:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Am I back?
Replies: 4
Views: 1132
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Re: Am I back?

Locked on 30 Sept. + LOctober + NOvember only comes to 62 days! If she goes until Christmas it should be one Helluva present for you after 87 days locked and denied! Only 62 days :-) ! I was locked at teatime on 29th, so a flying start. Full Locktober is definite, but I won't know about after that ...
by Steve2059
Tue Oct 01, 2019 7:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time without orgasm
Replies: 59
Views: 38370
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Re: Time without orgasm

I'm not doing so well on this front at the moment. 2018 was an orgasm-free year (excluding half-a-dozen ruins, about which I'm conflicted because they do strike me as cheating). I had hoped to build on this in 2019 and She seemed to be in support. But She can't get over her feeling that commanding m...
by Steve2059
Tue Oct 01, 2019 7:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Am I back?
Replies: 4
Views: 1132
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Re: Am I back?

Cheers for that. Told last night Locktober is definitely on, so back in at the deep end.