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I take it off and put it on. If I am getting released my wife will simply hand me the security screw for my Jailbird from MM which she wears on a necklace. Some weeks I might get released 3 or 4 times, other weeks it might only be once and on the rare occasion I might not get released at all for a w...

I prefer the oval ring. Anatomically it just fits me better. Forherdesire wrote: I am the same way. While I have a vise I will be sending it back. When I ordered my device from them I was using measurements off of a cb-x. So I ordered two rings. Unfortunately I should've not ordered the bigger one a...

lockedsteve wrote: I have a 1 1/4" cage length with a 1/2" gap. I do not fill up the cage. I really needed a 1" cage but they do not make them that small. Good news for "lockedsteve" or anyone else who is looking for a shorter cage. Back in April after several emails and ph...

I agree with "Locked by LRC" suggestion of getting 2 rings when you get a device from MM. I started with a CB6ks and when I ordered a JB from MM I measured the CB ring I was wearing. The 1&3/4" ring was slightly larger than the CB ring I was wearing and the 1&5/8" ring wa...

When I first approached my wife about putting me in chastity she agreed to try it but at first did not want to have a key. She was uncomfortable about denying me an orgasm so we put specific minimum and maximum times between orgasms in a contract. To prevent me from topping from the bottom I was not...

Forgot to add, if you get the security screw countersunk you cannot use a lock with it, you must use the screw.

My first JB from MM was purchased with the security screw. I used it with a lock for a while, which I will admit was easier to take on and off but the lock does stick out a bit from the cage and it did rattle. My wife did not like me wearing it when we cuddled at night. When I started out I ordered ...

Chastity contracts can be beneficial in the beginning in particular if one of the parties (usually the KH) is not comfortable with it. I introduced my wife to the idea of chastity and used the contract as a way to make her more comfortable with it. Initially my wife refused to hold the key however a...

Unfortunately there is no one method on how to approach your girlfriend with the idea of chastity. What it comes down to is how well you know your girlfriend and taking what you learn from researching the internet, including this site and numerous on line blogs to get as many ideas as you can and th...

My wife and I started out with me in chastity in March 2014, although my wife was at first reluctant and did not want to hold the key. We had a contract that stipulated that I had to be denied at least a week before and orgasm and no more than 21 days between orgasms. I had put that in the contract ...