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- Wed Apr 27, 2016 1:44 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Orgasm in seconds???
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4332
Re: Orgasm in seconds???
Never that fast but it does make things more sensitive. I am really really good at keeping my cool until she cums multiple times or until she ends the session. But I have had two mishaps and felt really bad about that. The most recent after 34 days. I was crushed as it was ruined as well. Actually p...
- Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:44 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Ruined orgasms: love/hate relationship
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2804
Ruined orgasms: love/hate relationship
I've posted about my feelings on ruined orgasms before but I think this post is a little different. I'm on day 17 of a 41 day stint. So far I've had no orgasm or release of any kind and the tension is mounting. Usually around this point my gf gives me a ruined orgasm intentionally or accidentally bu...
- Mon Feb 29, 2016 11:30 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Managing Horniness
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5354
Re: Managing Horniness
Personally I don't find erections excruciating in the cage thought they can be uncomfortable or chaffing. However nocturnal erections are extremely painful to me and prohibit me from wearing from day to day regularly. Perhaps the style of cage or size is too small for you. A larger ring may assist a...
- Sun Feb 28, 2016 11:14 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: What part of chastity does your KH like the best?
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6293
Re: What part of chastity does your KH like the best?
My gf enjoys the extra orgasms she receives and teasing me and hearing me moan and beg. She still doesn't understand what I get out of it. But as long as she's happy she doesn't really question my motives. And frankly it's hard to explain a kink. So we don't really talk about it that much other than...
- Wed Feb 24, 2016 12:42 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2138
Re: Lent - giving up orgasms
It's not easy. I'm on day 10 and this is my third or 4th time attempting it. This Time I have the support of an understanding yet fairly vigilant girlfriend. Despite not living together she likes me to give her updates on how I'm feeling and such. I like to think she masterbates to my frustration bu...
- Thu Feb 18, 2016 12:30 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2138
Re: Lent - giving up orgasms
Different strokes for different folks. Lol 41 days is an obscene amount of time for me. Almost 2 weeks longer than I've been. I have a high sex drive and only see my woman on weekends generally so I want to get what I can get when I can get it. Lol. So purposefully waiting and missing out on those r...
- Tue Feb 16, 2016 1:25 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: any Selflockers with a significant other
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4462
Re: any Selflockers with a significant other
Most of the time I'm not locked but when I am it's usually by my own hand. Often if I feel I may have a weak moment I'll lock myself just to add another barrier and give me more time to reconsider. I often like the feeling of being locked when at home. It's at work or during sleep it becomes a hassl...
- Tue Feb 16, 2016 12:05 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2138
Lent - giving up orgasms
This will be my fourth attempt at going through lent (from Vday to Easter) without an orgasm. My longest was 28 days so the thought of 41 is intimidating. Also being only day 2, makes me a little leery. But I've been sick the last two weeks so it really hasn't hit me yet. Once I'm back to healthy I'...
- Fri Feb 12, 2016 10:02 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: erections when freed?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 10781
Re: erections when freed?
My first erection after being caged is usually perfect. But future ones if not recaged can be difficult to maintain. I think it is from fatigue of being squeezed and straining for so long. But it is not permanent or chronic. Things will return to normal usually in a day or So. I had the same concern...
- Thu Feb 11, 2016 1:16 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Captions for Keyholders
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3833
Re: Captions for Keyholders
One of my exes watched a lot of porn and in hindsight was probably a wannabe Dom. She enjoyed having power over me but not always sexual. I did not enjoy it in that way as I was not sexualizing her behavior. I just thought she was a selfish person. But thinking back to some of the things she liked a...