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I am three days short of 17 months without an orgasm. I do have what we call mental orgasms but, no ejaculation. My wife's "kink" is that control.

That is what I'm saying. A FLR can have all of those things or none of those things. Kink does not make a FLR and a FLR does not require kink.

We don't use a device, just the honor system. My wife believes I should be obedient, so I am. I have not had an orgasm for over 15 months and I really don't see her wanting me to have another. She loves PIV sex and so do I so I have learned to not orgasm while she is satisfied. I guess you could say...

What do whips and leather corsets have to do with a FLR?

My wife likes to deny me an orgasm, she likes the control and believes it makes me a better man. I enjoy the "high" of not having one ( 15 months now ). We won't ever be doing penetration denial, she loves PIV and she gets what she wants.

For me, there is always a dull ache with a full feeling. It does not lessen or get worst, its just always there. And I might add, that for me it is a pleasurable way to be constantly reminded of her.

I have tried a lot of fetishes over the last 50 years and alway met others into them either in my day to day life, swing clubs or BDSM clubs. I never met anyone into chastity though. Everyone seemed to be seeking more and better orgasms, not foregoing them. My wife would like to find another girlfr...

For me, the best orgasm is no orgasm. I have now been six weeks without an orgasm and liking it more with every day that goes by. I say that the best orgasm is no orgasm because in a strange way, not having an orgasm though I do fuck my wife is oddly orgasmic in itself. It is as if the desire, the ...

I love it when she pleasures herself. She always does when piv and it just makes things that much more intense for both of us. When solo, its great too.

Katie's blog is one of the very few my wife has me read to her. Another of her favorites is Kathy's at Femdom 101.