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by Lockedwithlove
Sat Jan 23, 2016 9:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me aroun
Replies: 18
Views: 5077

Re: Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me a

I mentioned her joining a while ago and have not brought it up lately but I think I'll ask her to join again. If she's says yes I can set it up for her because she hates setting things line this up. I really do want her to join because I think she'd be a lot more comfortable and try new things if sh...
by Lockedwithlove
Sat Jan 23, 2016 5:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me aroun
Replies: 18
Views: 5077

Re: Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me a

i've found that only time and patience works. Just do more and more and when She does something just gently remind Her that you could do that, all She needs to do is ask. MsM now just sits and says things like "i need a cuppa now" rather than going and making one and asking if i want one ...
by Lockedwithlove
Sat Jan 23, 2016 1:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wait to be told to Lock Up or Just do it anyway.
Replies: 14
Views: 5297

Re: Wait to be told to Lock Up or Just do it anyway.

Its really hard to know what to do especially when chastity is new. What I want is for her to tell me what to do, often times she doesn't. So then I suggested that whenever we're done paying I should go back in my device. She said "okay" but to me seemed indifferent. So I took that as okay...
by Lockedwithlove
Sat Jan 23, 2016 1:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me aroun
Replies: 18
Views: 5077

Need advice on how to encourage my KH with ordering me aroun

Been in chastity since May of last year. My KH and I are enjoying it thoroughly, I love the feeling of being locked up for a week or so before any kind of release and the back into my device until the next time. I'm really trying to let my KH know how badly I want her to order me around. She is afra...
by Lockedwithlove
Tue Jan 05, 2016 1:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How do you think different age groups chastity play differs
Replies: 7
Views: 2526

Re: How do you think different age groups chastity play diff

I agree the nature vs nurture argument holds more power with the psyche over societal modeling. It makes sense that couples who have been together a long time are willing to explore further with their sexuality and role reversal because they are more comfortable with each other. Mrs. M and I are tru...
by Lockedwithlove
Mon Jan 04, 2016 6:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How do you think different age groups chastity play differs
Replies: 7
Views: 2526

How do you think different age groups chastity play differs

I've been thinking about this for a while now and I'm wondering if some of the couples who are in their mid 40's and older, if the Key holders in those age group take on a more dominant persona because they grew up in a more male dominated society. Now that the key holder has been offered the reins,...
by Lockedwithlove
Tue Dec 29, 2015 12:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: My first punishment... OUCH!
Replies: 18
Views: 6575

Re: My first punishment... OUCH!

Huh, sounds like she want to catch you in the act or doing something you're not supposed to so she can punish you again lol. I'm starting to have a real tough time when my KH allows me a free day. They are fewcanfvfar between but I almost think she's naive enough to think I have that much self contr...
by Lockedwithlove
Tue Dec 29, 2015 9:25 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: My first punishment... OUCH!
Replies: 18
Views: 6575

Re: My first punishment... OUCH!

Wow! Things have certainly changed for you since we last chatted, sounds like it's getting pretty serious. I don't know how I'd feel about that punishment either. It sounds hot when you read it but a little scary at the same time lol.