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by SteveOD
Tue Jan 04, 2022 8:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary
Replies: 4
Views: 1984
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

Good news is that my wife will allow me three orgasms a year now. There really is no need to lock up because try as I might, I cannot orgasm by masturbation. I was rubbing myself raw trying. Only my wife can make me cum. However, she still wants me locked because I keep on trying and she feels that ...
by SteveOD
Tue Dec 28, 2021 12:15 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 2664
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Re: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

I was unlocked for sex from 3-6 months. Most times I was locked during sex to avoid any accidents.
by SteveOD
Tue Dec 07, 2021 12:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Self lockers question..
Replies: 13
Views: 4203
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Re: Self lockers question..

Problem is that self locking is not the same as being locked by a KH. First off there is no exchange of power, they keystone on which chastity is built upon. The other problem is that chastity involves sex, sometimes a lot of sex while self locking is basically celibacy. Two different things. A thir...
by SteveOD
Sun Dec 05, 2021 10:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary
Replies: 4
Views: 1984
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

SteveOD...Thanks for your post. At 75, it's good to see posts from individuals in the same general age group. I too have had a recurring yeast issue, never too bad, just something that is more a nuisance, on occasion. Found a book by Bryan Cox on the internet, titled " Male Yeast Infections, H...
by SteveOD
Tue Nov 30, 2021 12:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary
Replies: 4
Views: 1984
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No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

My wife wanted to make our 50th anniversary special and talked me into locking up again until the end of October. I did and to be honest, sine we quit chastity our sex life has disappeared and my libido went away. Took weeks to feel horny and even then seldom did anything about it. I have only been ...
by SteveOD
Sun Oct 17, 2021 9:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Have you ever spotted a keyholder?
Replies: 25
Views: 17897
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Re: Have you ever spotted a keyholder?

There is no way to di that. Women and men have been wearing keys for a very long time to indicate that they hold the key to someone's heart. My wife has a regular looking key to support some cause and a Tiffany Gold key which is the key to my heart. This is like the tale of spotting a hot wife becau...
by SteveOD
Sun Oct 17, 2021 8:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 70 years old and 12 years in chastity. Here are some tips,
Replies: 2
Views: 2979
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Re: 70 years old and 12 years in chastity. Here are some tips,

One important tip I left off. Replace your shower head with a combo handheld and overhead one. I got one of those big rain ones that had a hand held head that magnetically attaches it to the overhead when not in use. Easiest one I had to install and I have installed 10 of them over the years. No tef...
by SteveOD
Fri Oct 15, 2021 1:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 70 years old and 12 years in chastity. Here are some tips,
Replies: 2
Views: 2979
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70 years old and 12 years in chastity. Here are some tips,

A little background. I started dating in first grade, lost my virginity to a gay friend at 13 and had an 18 year old girlfriend when I was 14. She taught me a lot. At 20 when I returned from Vietnam I was a cuckold to the girl living with me. I was engaged twice, both times to a bi woman. Married th...
by SteveOD
Thu Oct 14, 2021 4:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I finally understand "denial"
Replies: 6
Views: 3743
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Re: I finally understand "denial"

I used to go many months between orgasms for the last 11 years and now it is only ruined Orgasms. I an tell you what my wire did. 1. As with you, no touching her of naught bits. 2. Could not see her naked. During sex I wore a hood that covered my eyes. She got into CBT and nipple torture because my ...
by SteveOD
Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to hide the backup keys to my chastity cage?
Replies: 13
Views: 6525
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Re: Where to hide the backup keys to my chastity cage?

Actually you do not need to hide the emergency key. My wife either puts it into a small postage stamp envelope and signs and marks it so the she will know it is open. The other method is to buy serial numbered plastic locks and hook it up to something, record the serial number and she will know if y...