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by SteveOD
Fri Aug 07, 2020 3:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Most secure cages?
Replies: 11
Views: 2474
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Re: Most secure cages?

Correct and as a symbol, like my wedding ring, why would you want to remove it? That is all I am saying. I do not remove my wedding band even though I could do so easily. Those who cheat do remove their wedding bands and therein lies the difference in honoring a vow or not.
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife and device
Replies: 25
Views: 8295
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Re: Wife and device

Long term chastity did not work for us, going on 9 years now, until I bought a custom made Jailbird device. I twice split my CB cage and all the others did not fit me well. My Jailbird is neat, easy go keep clean and fits me like a glove with a custom sized ring and gap. I thought that a custom devi...
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Emergency keys are important!
Replies: 13
Views: 5216
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Re: Emergency keys are important!

I often tell newbies not to trust any keyholder who does not give them access to an emergency key. It is very easy to determine if it was used or not by the key holder using several method like a coin envelope that is signed or simply a numbered plastic lock attaching the key to something immovable....
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Most secure cages?
Replies: 11
Views: 2474
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Re: Most secure cages?

A common misconception is that you cannot orgasm when locked in a cage. Wrong. You can easily cum in any cage. Just watch chastity porn to see this. The other thing is escape proof cages. I can say that after 9 years of wearing one device or another. chastity will not work unless you have self contr...
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Completely denied (almost)
Replies: 17
Views: 5587
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Re: Completely denied (almost)

I get one kiss at night and that is it after 9 years locked in my Jailbird. The only teasing I get is being prohibited from seeing my wife naked, except occasionally during sex which is me kissing and fondling her while she cums on her vibrator which is a big tease in itself. Lately she unlocked me ...
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not horny after locking up for some times
Replies: 16
Views: 3396
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Re: Not horny after locking up for some times

Basically what you are experiencing is the very common loss of initial excitement of being caged. This is why most guys stop doing chastity. Often reality does not mirror fantasy. In our fantasies we are submissive spaces 24/7, but in reality you will wake up one morning and not feel like being whip...
by SteveOD
Thu Aug 06, 2020 8:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orientation of people on this forum
Replies: 34
Views: 7878
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Re: Orientation of people on this forum

I lost my virginity to a gay friend of mine as a teen. Had sex with another gay friend after that for a summer. However, I am not sexually attracted to men, just to orgasms. I am what they call heterosexual. That means I view myself as straight, not attracted to men or seek them out, but do not find...
by SteveOD
Fri Jul 24, 2020 8:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So, how many devices *do* you have, anyway?
Replies: 263
Views: 809863
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Re: So, how many devices *do* you have, anyway?

I have about 6 or 7. However, I always go back to my Jailbird for comfort and ease of cleaning.
by SteveOD
Fri Jul 24, 2020 8:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5530
Views: 2443404
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Hi "Vinny" - haven't seen you around in a while.. Going by Steve this time? Wouldn't it be easier to reactivate one of your old accounts? I could not remember any of my old accounts or if I still had that email address active. If you want to reactivate one for me, that is OK. We've come a...
by SteveOD
Thu Jul 23, 2020 10:40 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5530
Views: 2443404
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Hello. I am a senior citizen who has been locked in a Mature Metal Jailbird for 9 years now. I wear it all the time except when not practical, which is a few hours a month. Up till 9 years ago, my wife and I shared the same girlfriend who sexually dominated me for about 30 years. My wife is a perfec...