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by Finn
Wed Jul 05, 2017 12:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9592

Anyone else not allowed erections?

My keyholder loves very restrictive and strict denial. We added a "no unlocked/unsupervised erections" clause to our chastity contract. This basically means staying soft while cleaning, or if I'm unlocked outside the house because the cage is too obvious/restrictive, etc. Being over 50, th...
by Finn
Fri Jun 16, 2017 12:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1412459

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My keyholder and I have been advancing things for several months now. Last night it was decided that I'll get one ruined orgasm a month, and be locked 24/7, with a few exceptions for sports, motorcycle, places where it may be too obvious.... That discussion is both terrifying and exciting!
by Finn
Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Alternative Phallus
Replies: 27
Views: 14353

Re: Alternative Phallus

I prefer the strap-on to my own penis to be honest. It's been many years since sex was about me trying to orgasm, so I'm no longer wired for that anyhow. As I said in my comment about using a dildo with large balls, I get plenty of pleasure that way anyhow. As long as the original equiptment gets us...
by Finn
Sat Apr 08, 2017 8:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Alternative Phallus
Replies: 27
Views: 14353

Re: Alternative Phallus

My best recommendation to anyone going the alternate dick route is this......Get one, like the DocJohnson, which attaches right onto the harness, and most important of all.....Choose a dildo with big balls. The reason we both love this method of sex is that when I'm hard in my cage, the large balls ...
by Finn
Sun Mar 19, 2017 11:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Alternative Phallus
Replies: 27
Views: 14353

Re: Alternative Phallus

Other than maybe 3 times a year, it's what we do. We've got a DocJohnson, leather harness that designed for both sexes to use, and a collection of dildo's. Much of this works, because she had a pre-existing love of dildos, so since she was using them, more than me, I suggested I wear one, and it wor...
by Finn
Thu Feb 23, 2017 12:51 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Living vicariously through your partner
Replies: 7
Views: 4581

Re: Living vicariously through your partner

In karezza, the idea is to remove orgasm as the goal, and to share the orgasm you give. That's essentially how we do it anyhow. By being focused on the woman's orgasm, I find that I get some form of relief, as if I'd orgasm'd at the same time. Not 100% relief, or 100% of the time, but enough that I'...
by Finn
Fri Feb 10, 2017 12:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity resort
Replies: 7
Views: 7121

Re: Chastity resort

I tried to find the place, but kept getting lost. Since chastity, I have no sense of erection.
by Finn
Wed Feb 08, 2017 2:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long do you go without stimulation?
Replies: 7
Views: 6121

Re: How long do you go without stimulation?

I'm in a pretty similar situation. Caged 24/7 and we have sex every week or 2. Sex means giving her pussy worship while caged. I get unlocked about once a month but that makes no difference in the sense my penis is ignored completely while her hands drift around it to other parts. I get to orgasm a...
by Finn
Wed Feb 08, 2017 2:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity at an airport
Replies: 34
Views: 22463

Re: Chastity at an airport

I love sports motorbikes and would never consider waring my device whilst on a track day... That reminds me...lately I've been wasting time watching youtube videos of people crashing bikes, and there seems to be a whole lot of people in Europe, and in the UK particularly, who ride sportbikes and ha...
by Finn
Mon Feb 06, 2017 12:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity at an airport
Replies: 34
Views: 22463

Re: Chastity at an airport

After a dozen or more years of reading chastity oriented groups, it occurred to me that I don’t remember anyone saying something like “It’s not a life-support system, it’s only a sex toy. Just take the damn thing off for an hour, why don’t you?” Tom You know what.... your dam right! I love sports m...