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by sirmebane
Mon Aug 08, 2022 10:15 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to Uncover Like Minded People
Replies: 7
Views: 5214

Re: How to Uncover Like Minded People

Is my lawyer kinky? I don't want to know.

My family doctor of 25 years lives close enough to me that we see him walking through the neighborhood when he's out exercising.

There are a lot of people who like to socialize around their kink and that's great, I'm just not sure I'm one of them.
by sirmebane
Sun Aug 07, 2022 4:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How to Uncover Like Minded People
Replies: 7
Views: 5214

Re: How to Uncover Like Minded People

Back in the day, those meet ups were called "munches" since most were held in the large rooms at local restaurants as an ideal neutral ground to meet other weirdos. I'm sure they still happen in certain parts of the world and while I'm not aware of any that specialize in chastity, I'm hard...
by sirmebane
Thu Jun 23, 2022 11:55 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nervous,
Replies: 11
Views: 6122

Re: Nervous,

For those interested in the topic of x-ray, mm wave scanners and the like.
https://science.howstuffworks.com/backs ... anners.htm
by sirmebane
Fri Jun 17, 2022 2:49 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Key lock problems
Replies: 14
Views: 11703

Re: Key lock problems

I had a Master lock (not the one described here for sure) seize up on me when my wife wanted me out for some fun. She freaked out more than I did and it took some over-use of WD-40 and two pair of channel locks to coax it to open up with the key. I no longer use Master locks brand and I am careful t...
by sirmebane
Fri Jun 17, 2022 2:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nervous,
Replies: 11
Views: 6122

Re: Nervous,

I'm okay with taking off the cage to see the doctor since it breaks the "I'm not going to expose other people to my kinks" rule that I want to live by. No one is going to see it at the dentist's office, when you're on stage speaking to a large group nor just wandering about in public. I ha...
by sirmebane
Mon May 09, 2022 12:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: One-sided
Replies: 0
Views: 2129

One-sided

In days past when my wife was tired, not in the mood or simply feeling generous she would offer sex that was one-sided meaning that she would tend to my sexual release without anything for herself. Slowly over the time we have practiced chastity she has been lifted of that burden and knows that she ...
by sirmebane
Mon May 02, 2022 11:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Metal Detectors
Replies: 51
Views: 26367

Re: Metal Detectors

Questions on backscatter simply means a pat down. Regardless of the plastic or metal involved, the machine will determine there is something dense and flag it for investigation. The only means of investigating what the machine flags is some personal contact with the screener.
by sirmebane
Mon May 02, 2022 11:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: how does a whole locktober feel
Replies: 8
Views: 3112

Re: how does a whole locktober feel

I'm 6 years into the journey... being locked, being unlocked, being denied, being free to do as I want but always coming back to asking her to lock me up. I just finished a 35 lock up that ended last night with her deciding to unlock me for PIV. In the early days, I was crawling all over her and com...
by sirmebane
Fri Apr 15, 2022 12:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keyholder feels bad. Looking for Advice
Replies: 10
Views: 4356

Re: Keyholder feels bad. Looking for Advice

All good advice you're getting here. Communicate. Be patient. Let her be in charge. If she tells you to cum, you greedily ejaculate as told. I always tell my wife that I'm ready whenever she wants to let me out but when she asks if NEED to be released I simply explain that is her decision. She has s...
by sirmebane
Fri Apr 15, 2022 12:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"
Replies: 8
Views: 4445

Re: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"

Curious women asked the Scotsman if he wore anything under his kilt. The Scotsman rolled back his shoulders and offered his biggest grin to reply, "on a good day... only lipstick."