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- Wed Feb 02, 2011 8:31 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Cupid's Poisoned Arrow
- Replies: 20
- Views: 11185
Re: Cupid's Poisoned Arrow
I don't really buy that there is proven "science" behind the stuff on the website. Not saying that some of the practices aren't good or helpful, I just think there is a real anti-orgasm streak that hasn't been proven by any science. I am someone who sees the personal benefits of limiting o...
- Wed Jan 26, 2011 2:49 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Ruined Orgasms: Then And Now
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2353
Re: Ruined Orgasms: Then And Now
Has anyone else ever had a ruined orgasm while in a CD using a Hitachi? It is completely odd. You get no direct physical stimulation other than the vibration and feel completely unsure you can climax until you do. It takes the edge off "needing" release with none of the normal physical ple...
- Tue Jan 25, 2011 1:36 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Punishment or reward?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3183
Re: Punishment or reward?
Thanks. I try not to be passive aggressive, but this did give me a chance to fish on her thoughts as to an appropriate waiting time. She thought it would take 2-3 weeks to lose 5 pounds in a steady and healthy manner (healthy diet and regular exercise).
- Tue Jan 25, 2011 12:06 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Punishment or reward?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3183
Punishment or reward?
There are a lot of good blogs discussing this and similar topics (thank you Dev and Tom, for example). My wife and I had an interesting talk on the weekend. We are both trying to shed a few winter pounds. She suggested I could have an orgasm every few pounds. We tried this a few summers ago, and it ...
- Tue Jan 25, 2011 11:56 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: I'm Locked, But She Is Too
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3066
Re: I'm Locked, But She Is Too
My wife and I have a kink streak that has been primarily dormant due to raising small children and other mundane "life" issues. We are now done havoing kids, and she seems much more vested in MC now. During her last pregnancy, she had no sex drive (I've seen similar stories and posts) whic...
- Mon Jan 24, 2011 2:54 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Re-settable combo locks
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2414
Re: Re-settable combo locks
What if you are locked in a room with no lights and given a relatively brief amount of time to escape? Might be fun.
- Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:51 pm
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Plastic versus metal
- Replies: 11
- Views: 9969
Re: Plastic versus metal
Funny. My wife was definately game this weekend, but once said "that is quite a contraption" and later said "you can go put your thingy on". She was very pleased to hold the keys, but I'm not sure she likes looking at it. Thanks for the perspective.
- Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:12 pm
- Forum: Chastity Devices
- Topic: Plastic versus metal
- Replies: 11
- Views: 9969
Plastic versus metal
Two weeks ago, I thought the spouse and I would stick with the honor system, and I wouldn't experiment with a CD. I have had some pretty long stints on the honor system. Then, I spent half the weekend in an old CB-2000 I bought almost 10 years ago, but haven't used much since. When I bought the CB-2...
- Sat Jan 22, 2011 3:57 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: PIV followup
- Replies: 0
- Views: 3543
PIV followup
Here are some points I took away from my recent question about the importance of PIV sex. A lot of this is probably not a big surprise, but I found it interesting anyway. I appreciated all of the responses, and it showed that even in a niche like MC, there is a wide variety of practices. 1. A better...
- Sat Jan 22, 2011 3:05 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: 90 Day Eval/Fully Invested
- Replies: 17
- Views: 7811
Re: 90 Day Eval/Fully Invested
I know I can get obsessive and clingy, which I know can be annoying. This was particularly true over stretches where her sex drive was lower. On the current cycle, her drive is pretty good. She is enjoying it, but I can't expect the experience to be as intense for her as for me. We try to come up wi...