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by Finn
Thu Mar 01, 2018 2:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Some input on my (our) situation
Replies: 6
Views: 3574

Re: Some input on my (our) situation

We have a similar, but different situation. I love chastity and denial, and live a somewhat poly life. My wife is OK with chastity, but it does not turn her on. We have a wonderful queer friend and she is in charge of my chastity and denial, and genuinely loves Topping and tormenting me. Anyhow, as ...
by Finn
Sun Jul 23, 2017 1:06 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wrench-holder? :)
Replies: 3
Views: 2680

Re: Wrench-holder? :)

Very creative. You could go a step further. Welding. Your Lady would go from key holder to wrench holder to torch holder. What do you think?????????? :D Well, it's a plastic CB, so that wouldn't work! There are still times I need to take the cage off. I sometimes go a few days locked in a row, but ...
by Finn
Sun Jul 23, 2017 1:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9592

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

This no-erection thing is very extreme. But fun, I imagine. I hope that the wife or girlfriend still gets many orgasms during these no erections period that the man has to endure (or enjoy--depending on her you look at it). My wife and my keyholder are two different people. My wife likes toys, so w...
by Finn
Sat Jul 22, 2017 10:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wrench-holder? :)
Replies: 3
Views: 2680

Wrench-holder? :)

I've made a number of mods to my CB6000, to make it work longer term for me, and my keyholder. My main problems have been stealth under clothes, and the balance between comfort, and my right testicle pulling through the ring. My solution to the problems has been to mess with the design a bit. I boug...
by Finn
Sat Jul 22, 2017 10:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Shaved Balls
Replies: 26
Views: 14834

Re: Shaved Balls

I find the chafing comes from the balls trying to pull through the ring. Having the right sized ring helps, plus a bit of lube along that area. I'm generally shaved down there myself, but I find the straining of the balls, pulling the skin tight onto the ring is the issue.
by Finn
Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9592

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

Great to hear from some other guys in the same or similar boat! I'm allowed erections on the very rare occasions 'Im needed for (no cumming for me) sex, and once a month to quickly empty out, while she looks on. She loves to see a struggle and fussing, so finding it harder to get hard is something s...
by Finn
Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tempted to "Out" myself
Replies: 19
Views: 11018

Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Locked by LRC wrote:We do something like that. Do a search for "head ring" or "glans ring" There's many styles out there.

Try this for a quick check https://www.stockroom.com/head-ring-with-ball.html
Exactly!
by Finn
Mon Jul 17, 2017 1:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tempted to "Out" myself
Replies: 19
Views: 11018

Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

It's a tricky thing with chastity. Some of the things we would find exciting when aroused, would be a disaster when no so turned on. Wearing something that creates an aroused headspace really needs clear consideration when it comes to this stuff. I'm pretty lucky in that I have a number of very kink...
by Finn
Mon Jul 17, 2017 1:45 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9592

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

With us, an erection only counts if it's an unlocked ones. She loves when I am aroused while locked. Having one (outside of her request and presence) has serious consequences. Just the fact that my KH does not allow me to have an erection....would give me an erection! +1 To be clear, I still conside...
by Finn
Fri Jul 07, 2017 1:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else not allowed erections?
Replies: 16
Views: 9592

Re: Anyone else not allowed erections?

We use a strap-on for the most part. Occasionally the original equipment, but not very often. Maybe a few times a year. My keyholder is a good friend of ours, which is a long story, but it works for us. With sex, I have been using Tantric methods for over a decade, so, like you, I don't find it nece...