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Last night at bedtime, I reached over to my wife and ran my fingers across the soft skin on her shoulders. She has taken to sleeping naked in the heat. "Oh, good," she said, "I was hoping you would give me a massage. It's feeling tight in my upper back." I said I wasn't up for gi...

A hot surprise playtime this weekend. Playtime was unexpected as it was that time of the month for my wife... an especially heavy one that left her feeling tired and uncomfortable. On Saturday evening, we relaxed on the couch watching TV, my wife reclining at one end with me sitting beside her feet....

A bit of a setback this week. With all the great teasing, my arousal has been high. At the same time, my wife is often quite tired at the end of the day, as she is working on a big organization project at home. She doesn't feel like much play time, and she craves more massage than normal, which you ...

I would like to be teased more often but I don't want to become annoying or make OC into something that my wife considers as "work." Since I explained to her that I enjoy the teasing, she does seem to have fun with it sometimes. Yesterday evening we got home from a long car trip. The AC in...

I am taking things slowly on this journey. Since I have been with my wife for over 25 years, I am mindful about making too many sudden changes in our sex life. After all, we have a good thing going and I want her to always be comfortable with where this is going. Reading these forms, patience seems ...

I think my wife is starting to enjoy opportunities to be more dominant with her body. Although my chastity practice is my own initiative, I think she enjoys the fact that I am increasing aroused by her, even in the smallest ways. With the ongoing lockdown, I am working from home, so we see each othe...

Reflecting on my experience and the writings of other members, I’ve been thinking about the idea of orgasm denial and why it’s so exciting. My wife doesn’t understand the appeal. Although I sometimes tease her when we are having sex, I always make her cum. She usually has at least 3 orgasms. She wou...

Starting a journal today about my experiences with being chaste and allowing my wife to have greater control of my sexuality... especially my orgasms. Reading this forum, I have really enjoyed this great community of men and their expressiveness about love and commitment to their wives and girlfrien...

Hello. I am new to this site and I am enjoying the conversation. Mid 40s, married to same woman for almost 25 years. I stumbled upon chastity last year as my wife and I were planning a road trip without kids. I decided to “save myself” for the trip and abstained from masturbation for about 10 days. ...