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A long time has passed since my last posting. The divorce took a long time and left me pretty empty, and I'm only just getting over it. COVID hasn't helped either. I do keep locking myself at times. The duration varies between a few hours and a few days, usually 1-3 days, sometimes enforced via the ...

I'm swapping between the JB and the Saint to see what else needs changing if I go for a custom Saint. One thing I forgot to mention above is the wonderful ability to pee standing up in the Saint. Is it possible to "tweak" a Saint? I bent my JB fairly easily but don't know if the nylon will...

I've come to like the Saint, but the fitting isn't right. I need a shorter cage but more importantly a larger gap. I'm wondering if I'm willing to spring the money to buy a custom one; in the meantime my started set is mostly unused and I'm back in the old JailBird. The longest time in the Saint was...

My first overnighter and it's at least as comfortable as the JB. Woke up really early trying to have an erection, but that would probably have been true in any other device on the first night caged for a long time (I also have a lot of stress in my life right now and wake early anyway). I love how l...

Much gentle sanding later I've got it to fit okay. Perhaps a little tight but we'll see. I've had to go a size down on the base ring from the JB so I'm glad I ordered the starter pack. Today's the first time to try the whole thing for an hour or so, including the integrated lock. It's very comfortab...

Lady Fox wrote back to say they had some rings made that were out of tolerance so too tight, and that I should sandpaper it down a bit (2mm). I've been slow and careful so I don't go too far, and now it's better but still tighter than I'm willing to try. What? Oh, come on, where's your sense of adve...

I've had a Jailbird for a while but find it heavy and I'm always concerned about metal detectors. So I finally decided to order a Saint from Custom Chastity. I'm a grower and always struggle with the measurements, so I ordered the starter pack with the regular cage and 3 different base rings thinkin...

A year later and I suppose it's time for an update. Things didn't work out and we're in the process of divorcing. Very sad but not hateful stuff like some. Occasionally I self-lock as it seems to lift my spirits, and not having erections even seems to help me sleep better. I still monitor this site ...

But, setting it for 10 days and taking the batteries out, knowing that it would still be set at 10 days when the batteries were put back in, that would be "extra" diabolical. Of course you can put the key in, set it for 10 days, and then remove the batteries. That way you know that the lo...

Ah, the kitchen safe. I have one too, and that 5 second countdown always gets my pulse racing; do I want to cancel it before the it locks itself? A variation with the kitchen safe is to lock away the keys with a fixed time, but then remove the batteries. The clock stops and will restart when you put...