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So if a wife/partner really enjoys penis-in-vagina penetration, does that create any conflict over chastity? Can it balance out as quality versus frequency issue?

My wife and I have flirted with T&D our whole relationship (we've been together almost 15 years), but the first time we went longer than two weeks with MC was when she felt poorly for an extended period of time. She seemed to like that I was abstaining, though I couldn't exactly figure out why, ...

Thanks for all of the replies. It is interesting to see the range of things that work for different couples. Right now, we are somewhere in the middle. Child rearing and some other issues have dampened her drice and I think that MC has freed her of the guilt of openly using the vibrator with me. Whi...

I know the answer to this will be different for everyone. I suppose most folks dabbling in MC are having less PIV sex, but we weren't having very much sex at all before we started the latest round of MC. Now, we are having relatively frequent non-PIV sex. I have had only two orgasms this year, and n...

Thanks for responding. I guess my concern is that it would be easier to slip out of the base ring than to put it on in the first place, and to some extent, getting the sizing right given the cost. Does the WM make it any more difficult to pull out compared to a CB---- device? I am thinking about dus...

I don't know if my wife will ever have the intense interest in chastity that I do, but we have been together for over 13 years now, and she has seemed gradually more interested and assertive about it. Last year, we went over 50 days on the "honor system" but the unusual challenge there was...

I had a CB-2000 many years ago, but was disappointed that it was harder to get in it than to slipout. I never tried another device after that. We have had good success with the honor system and are dabbling again and I am considering a device. I know security is never 100% but to me there is a large...

Different from past experiences, I was more on edge the day after, and now on day 4, not particularly worked up yet. But I've been very busy and had less alone time with spouse.

Just entered a refractory period as of this morning, so I guess I will find out. Prior thereto, we promised that she would remind me if I got too jerky.

Also, it can be fun to break rules, don't forget. For us, it has been a periodic thing over the past few years, depending on life's circumstances. Kind of like catching a wave--cycles can last several days to several weeks. Then, I eventually end up back in a rut, and it is hard to say what will spa...