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It's February 5th, and I still have had only one real orgasm all year. There was another time when it slowly spurted and oozed with no real climax. Still, it's February, and we've been really busy, so there has been little play time. The result is some "blues" even though its been 15 days ...

I like your focus on the partner, @fuzzydunlop . “It’s not service if they don’t want it”. I know Bear enjoys making me come, so I am grateful when he does - and grateful when he doesn’t. I am curious. You say “eventually the novelty and high wears off”. In your experience, how long did that take? ...

If you play with this with a partner long enough, you will realize there isn’t a perfect way to manipulate your hormones. Even when you hold out indefinitely, eventually the novelty and high wears off as your body adjusts. Also, if your partner enjoys giving you an orgasm, and you hold out, you can ...

Do you ever really feel in your gut that you are getting close to your emotional limits? We’ve been on an epic streak of denial play for about a year, where it’s not totally gone away. I haven’t MB’d at all. About half my orgasms are from ruined handjobs. The other half from PIV. The last time I had...

Embrace the conflict and realize that the conflict will exist some of the time. My wife is kinky, GGG on denial, and we’ve been at it 20+ years. There are likely going to be times when your wife wants regular sex and if you want to please her and keep balance, going a few days with a let down is par...

Tbh I’m jealous of all of you who need a Hitachi or some other deliberate effort to get off in your cage. Oddly enough I find it super easy to orgasm in my JB, to the point where I have to focus on NOT cumming much of the time when I’m aroused, even with no direct stimulation. Oh and my caged orgas...

So a hot thing My Wife said this morning "that was hot...let's just keep having 'lesbian sex'". We were all set to watch Netflix last night. But while i was waiting for her, i went and got a nightgown, panties, and stockings. When She got under the covers, she teased me about my attire, bu...

"That was pretty hot. Let's just have 'lesbian sex'".

Expectations, and playing with expectations, is a big part of the game. Some of the biggest chastity enthusiasts with the most experience and cages never quite find the "perfect" device. Coming in a cage can be a pretty intense and ruined way to end an orgasm drought. You orgasm, but canno...

...it really is more of a humiliation thing for us than conventional feminization as such. No disrespect to those who are in to 'Sissy', but that is not our thing, not where this is headed for us. However I am finding that said the stockings do feel lovely - and horny, which adds to the frustration...