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Vast majority of my “orgasms” are caged, and I’ve been fine continuously locked for periods up to two months. You’ll be fine. Just really frustrated.

It takes a special Allen key anyway, which I don’t have. I doubt my owner wants to deal with loctite and if I pitch that, I’ll end up in the Cherry Keeper - great device but I love the Contender.

Question - the security screw on my Contender has started coming loose. This is the second time, and I don’t want it to wriggle all the way off and risk losing the screw. Would a tiny dab of super glue be a horrible idea? It seems like it would be easy to snap loose with the proper wrench that came ...

Prefer shaved, owner seems to prefer hair at the moment. So, hair.

I share that opinion on the large headlock. The medium worked fine for me for months, but as my flaccid size diminished, it wasn’t nearly as effective. Which actually makes it less comfortable to wear

Right. The tip should rest just at the end of the cage when entirely flaccid. And yes, your flaccid size may shrink over time. It is not permanent but could require a shorter cage. Just my personal experience a couple of times.

Be mindful of this and actively work against the change, since you know what happens. Also determine if your submissiveness to your partner is only based on sex drive. You may not be a submissive - you could be a fetishist. Big distinction and that’s ok. Or see if your partner will make your orgasm ...

6 devices, additional rings for main two cages - about $550 in almost two years

The Burg-Wachter is worth the extra money. Hold up better and is not the sort of thing you want to be frugal about.

The key is for frustration to not turn into irritation. It’s easy for lack of acknowledgement to turn into resentment if this pretty basic impulse is ignored. That can easily happen as it disproportionately affects one person. After some time, if ignored, you’ll start to wonder why you’re bothering ...