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Dev wrote" Why are we all so worried about our kids and why do we all assume they are vanilla? Very funny! My daughter once said she and her friends at school tried amongst themselves to think of the most gross thing. What they came up with was their parents having sex! Ha! If they only knew. B...

:o Wow! Thanks for a lot of great responses. All have merit. Dev is right that this should be discussed face to face so that is what I did last night. After thinking carefully about what I wanted to say and limiting it to one or two things, we had our talk. Bottom line is she ok with chastity play a...

I decided last evening that I will try to put my feelings about chastity, and D/s down in print in an email to my spouse in the hopes of jumpstarting communication between us on these subjects. We can't seem to talk face to face about this or maybe I'm just afraid to ask. Maybe I've bombarded her wi...

Celtic Queen, Your posts are always so refreshing and enlightening. We are generally a bit selfish and it can tend to be all about "me". Thank you for keeping us honest and expressing, so succinctly, the female point of view. Your observations are invaluable to this and other forums. Thank...

Its a relief to discover that I'm not the only one on this roller coaster of emotions. Since introducing MC to my wife Karen almost a year ago I've remained the eternal optimist. Hoping that at some point she would finally embrace MC. Still, she is at best a reluctant Keyholder. The most frustratin...

Welcome Farmy, Everyone's situation is a little different. As far as a device, the CB 6000s is a very good starter device. My KH/Spouse and I use a combination of the CD & the honor system. I prefer the device, she prefers the honor system. Take the time to break-in and fit to the device. In clo...

Dev, he may well be a bit sore. If I having been wearing my CD longer than 3-4 days continuiously(24hrs), I. also am a bit sore all over down there after removal. Funny, but I don't feel the soreness while the CD is on. I am reluctant to tell my KH about it for fear she will not use it again (as she...

[ color=#FFBF80] Have you talked to her about the reasons why she is preferring the honor system over the CD? I know that I am not turned on by the look of some of the devices, and if that is the case then finding a device you both like together may solve the problem.[/quote] [/color] Belle, I think...

Hi! This is my first post on this site, although I have been active on others. This topic certainly drew a lot of responses. I have been on the "honor" system for awhile because my spouse/KH has been reluctant to use our CB6000S. The last term was six weeks. I was amazed I was able to do i...