Chastity Forums

You do not need to be erect to cum in a cage. Mine is a custom fit too and my wife made me cum once by simply holding her vibrator next to it. You can still jerk it back and forth because no matter how small the ring. your balls are going to stretch a bit. You can insert a swab in any opening and r...

My balls are fairly big, and they are pushed up and out, against my thighs as I'm sitting here now. It's an odd feeling. Mine too... Only the last lockup did I finally figure out how to properly position all the bits and peices.. I'm sure I will get used to it. And you're right! Odd feelings all ov...

I wish you continued luck Steve. If you ever do get a solid answer regarding what your Mrs. gets out of it. I would love to read about. Yours is the hardest chastity situation I've heard of yet.. KittenBoyToy... What you say rings a bell with me. Before I met my keyholder and for many years I have b...

I have read a few of your other posts in the past few weeks Steve. I know I wouldn't enjoy the sort of dynamic that you do.. I want my wife to want me, always and would be very hurt if she didn't... There are times though when control on a much deeper level is appealing to me. To be truly just her p...

you have 20+ years to go to understand the reduction in performance we've all dealt with, enjoy the ride :D Well.. Thats one way to screw with a guys mind! But I am sure you are right, so advice such as above will come in handy... ...now if only I can find a way to sit in a chair without hurting my...

Seems to me that this is a psychological thing... I'm only 37 so my previous lack of really hard erections was down to frequency, porn usage, and overall exasperation with sex in general. Locking up has controlled all that and has given me a focus, my keyholder. I'm as hard as 10 years ago.

just curious.. Can you not keep a record of searches? Or perhaps you are trying to match search terms with known users to better understand how the site is used?

For me.. I'm fairly new.. A month in, wearing my steel cage off and on. It had to take it off more than I like because of chafing, pinching, and still trying to get the right.. 'sit', if you know what I mean. I still have a chafing wound, but I'm working through that minimal pain because I don't lik...

Rule 1 - it's about being happy. If you are and she is, then go for it. There isn't really a rule 2. Advice time: these things develop and evolve. Try and let it; don't force things. Many of us here have tales on how badly that worked. Also, think about how your submission can work for her - how mu...

It was all very fast.. Within a few short weeks I went from wanting to be emotionally submissive to my future wife all the way to wanting to be locked up for the rest of my life, released only when and if she wants. I'm lucky perhaps in that my kh is more concerned about me and my state of mind, and...