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The way our guys need a bit of time before they can stand to attention is something I have read about and experienced. My Wife and I have learned that it just takes an hour or so after release before I am able to perform so, if she wants me, she has a few options. She can release me ahead of time ju...

I think one of the down sides of this forum is how replies to journal entries are discouraged. I try to abide by it as rules is rules, but it does mean you have no idea who is reading and whether they are actively interested. I just wanted to say I have been doing both, just not commenting because o...

I have been given the task of losing 25kg by my Wife, that is about 55 pounds. So far in a month I have lost 8kg, about 17 1/2 pounds. My motivation was my Wife promised to dress me up in lingerie if I managed it and give me a damn good time. How could I not respond!? :D Anyway, I was obese when I s...

You are right, the Holy Trainer is easy to pull out of. For me it is a symbol rather than an absolute secure device. I am heading that way for the extra stimulation being effectively locked up will give, but my own mental approach to chastity is enough to stop me trying to beat the device. it depend...

I have an integral lock with my Holy Trainer, but my Wife refuses to wear the key on a chain as it is so clunky. I would prefer a nicer key with an integral lock. I am planning on getting my Wife one of those nice pendants with the key hidden in a tube as soon as I can afford it. I am hoping to buy ...

Before I wore a chastity device my Wife and I used to regularly share showers. Occasionally she would wash my penis for me, lathering it and making me hard. It didn't always lead anywhere, but over the years we have been together a shower was usually the precursor to sex. My Wife will not allow or i...

My weight loss continues. Chastity is honestly the best motivator and trainer for the attitude needed to lose weight I have ever come across. Wearing my HTv2 and accepting my Wife's pace and lead in everything has taught me patience like nothing has ever done before. Losing weight is slow, boring, h...

I screwed up and needed to do something to show my Wife that I was committed fully to our relationship, to her. I had asked for permission to modify my glans by splitting it in two and she had agreed, but I had not heard how hesitant she was about the idea. When I had almost finished she absolutely ...

1) 2 - so far about 5 to 6 weeks between orgasms, defined and controlled by my Wife. Ruined orgasms count as far as she is concerned. 2) 47 3) Since October 2015, so going into my fifth month. 4) Yes a Holy Trainer 5) 1 I don't see the point of having an orgasm more often than once every three weeks...

Since starting a chastity lifestyle my Wife has allowed me PIV about once every six weeks or so, and has basically told me to stop worrying about whether she is denying herself. It has dawned on me that she is getting exactly what she wants as she gets so many orgasms from other means that PIV isn't...