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by sirmebane
Mon Mar 20, 2023 9:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked and porn
Replies: 34
Views: 16461

Re: Locked and porn

@Tom Allen Where do you go on Reddit? I see a lot of chastity "noise" when I wander over there.
by sirmebane
Mon Mar 20, 2023 9:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1028
Views: 1324014

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

Traveling a lot more in March 2023 and came back from a trip, put on the cage and put the keys in the agreed upon place where she would find them and put them away where I cannot find them. Two days later I mentioned to her, "You know I didn't receive any acknowledgement nor praise about lockin...
by sirmebane
Thu Dec 29, 2022 11:06 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
Replies: 7
Views: 3020

Re: Trying not to TOP from the bottom

all I needed to read was this line She whispered to me "we need to get you locked back up when we get home." [/u][/i][/b] You are there. That line indicates to me you have a unicorn same as me. For us it has been a 5 year process. Each time little escalations. This was a big change for he...
by sirmebane
Mon Dec 19, 2022 10:48 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
Replies: 7
Views: 3020

Re: Trying not to TOP from the bottom

She might have acted on her own but I was rebounding from our PIV and an orgasm was on my mind. I recognized the early warning signs and knew it was only a matter of time. One night we went to bed and I just asked her, "Are you ever going to lock me back up?" I got a little laugh and she t...
by sirmebane
Wed Dec 14, 2022 5:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trying not to TOP from the bottom
Replies: 7
Views: 3020

Trying not to TOP from the bottom

My wife has been a willing participant in my chastity for over six years. I tried to not "set the tone" nor instruct her on the way she should keep me in chastity so she could do as she pleased. The problem I have is that if I'm not asking for something, I rarely get it. I had a gut-wrench...
by sirmebane
Mon Nov 28, 2022 8:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Issues with metal detectors at sporting events?
Replies: 12
Views: 19384

Re: Issues with metal detectors at sporting events?

I had the same experience with a tennis match but I didn't have the advanced notice. Metal detector didn't go off. You cannot assume that will always be the case since the sensitivity can be dialed up or down depending on what they want to do there. I also learned that newer metal detectors have zon...
by sirmebane
Tue Oct 04, 2022 11:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1028
Views: 1324014

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

I always try to keep my wife current on my last orgasm date since it is just a fun part of our intimate back and forth. A couple of nights ago I asked her if she remembered when I was allowed an orgasm. Her: "Well, I had to unlock you for your business trip to Denver back in August." Me: &...
by sirmebane
Wed Aug 10, 2022 6:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: IS this common enough that people know what keys are?
Replies: 27
Views: 22389

Re: IS this common enough that people know what keys are?

Fastredcar wrote: Wed Aug 10, 2022 5:02 pm What is the name of the show?
How to build a sex room...
https://www.netflix.com/title/81220971
by sirmebane
Mon Aug 08, 2022 10:20 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 186
Views: 162068

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

I have agonized over this one and tried to talk to her on a number of occasions but aborted the discussion thinking it wasn't appropriate because she had her mind on other things, she was too tired, she was sick. The short story is that I was afraid to have the conversation. I'm not an anxious perso...
by sirmebane
Mon Aug 08, 2022 10:18 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 186
Views: 162068

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

This is from June 28, 2022... trying to catch up on my journey. We have had a lot of success with chastity and having fun with our relationship over the past few years. She is highly vanilla and just shakes her head at most of my kinky requests but has found a place she wants to be in controlling me...