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The other is that I have a really high sexual drive and I found myself masturbating "without realizing" - a slight "boredom tug" that turns into a masturbation session - quick, non-emotional - just give me any porn, let me ejaculate, and forget about it. I didn't like that. It a...

Well, things have gotten very interesting. So about two weeks ago or so, my wife decided that she wanted to try to slap my scrotum a couple of times "just to see". I was a little stunned to say the least. She playfully swatted at it before she even said anything, so I kind of thought she w...

I think you're probably right. I think the Contender is bordering on the threshold of the alarms of those detectors. I've been through one twice while wearing it. The first time I walked through a detector, it went off, but the next day it did not. Same metal detector. That tells me it is probably j...

How are you dealing with the long term denial aspect? Actually, last week was a challenge. For some reason, over a couple days, I got aroused anytime I was around my wife. It finally occurred to me that she was probably ovulating and once I checked the chart, sure enough, she was right in the windo...

Thanks cshorts and wishful4 , that's really good to hear that it will return to normal after a little while. I think what made me the most nervous, was that I couldn't seem to find much information about someone else who has experienced this, and what I did find seemed to suggest it wasn't a common ...

I've been having some irritation, likely ingrown hair, around the base ring so we finally removed it after several months (locked 24/7 since mid-May). I would normally try to tough it out, but it had been awhile and the only reason my wife would ever agree to unlocking it would be for health reasons...

I was on a Las Vegas trip a little bit ago, and was approached by half-a-dozen whores over the 4 days I was there. It was very funny to me how they were putting on the whole routine, and not knowing who they were talking to. The first one actually gave me a business card, lol. It had a heart on it, ...

lol, I get it @Schnoff. I'm not here to argue about it, just throwing in my $0.02 since advice was sought after.

No one:

chastityforums.com: "Inspire overwhelming shame and disgust in your partner, and make them hate themselves for it. We can take it from there."

It sounds like whatever it is, it has gone beyond "safe, sane, and consensual" when it invokes overwhelming feelings of shame and disgust and you are just trying to cope with feelings of hating yourself. I could be wrong.

With some of the other kink stuff that hes wanting to do I'm having a really hard time coping. I feel overwhelmed, ashamed of him and disgusted by him, which makes me feel ashamed of myself and absolutely disgusted with myself and honestly hate myself. Maybe you should reconsider whether you were a...