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Likewise, get a good harness that has 2 straps going underneath you, so you can put them on either side of the cage, and allow the "replacement" to ride lower on your hips for a more natural feel. I found a harness that’s supposed to be for double penetration. The dildo rests over a hole ...

Long talk last night, finally. Actual progress is still up in the air, but at least everything is finally out in the open. That part feels good.

Might need a ‘Chapter 3’ soon. That would be awesome. Or this could be the first post of an ‘Epilogue.’ That would suck.

No one’s talking about the UTI aspect of the problem. I highly recommend Thumper’s Blog posts on his experience down this path. The TL;DR is that he started with “Yes, there is a risk of a UTI, but everything good in life comes with risks. I’ll accept the risk.” He ended up getting a UTI, and that c...

That’s awesome. I want to be somewhere between Hard and Flirty.

... and that’s a dirty sentence.

I like where Steve2059 went with it. It’s similar to my feelings on it. I think of my sex life (and all of my desires and processes) as one sheet of paper that exists by itself. It is always there. Sometimes, another sheet gets laid in top, called denial. The first sheet shod still be there, but und...

That’s funny. I was going to suggest someone should start a website. How naive of me to not realize someone would’ve already. It’s 2018. It’s all out there...

I can say that on my JB, the security screw has never come loose. Five to seven days, non-stop 24/7 wear, and I find it completely seated when I go to remove it. I don’t know why, but it was just never a problem for me. I had an extra bar added, and I found that when I was being teased, I swelled so...

Thumper eventually got a UTI, and that changed his opinion. He was miserable, and re-assessed his risk vs. reward paradygm. Also, the inserts that are plastic tube with the metal end pieces ... those metal end pieces are threaded into the plastic tube. While there’s a 90% chance of nothing happening...

Every penis is different from every other penis. Even better, your penis is different at 8AM vs 2PM vs 8PM. There is absolutely no chastity device that works for every penis. This ... hobby? fetish? lifestyle? ... can become expensive quickly. My personal experience says that you should measure as b...

Thank you all, and also the number of private messages I’ve received. This is a great, supportive and caring community. There is a long standing issue in my marriage, unrelated to denial and chastity. It’s something I’ve tried unsuccessfully to address in the past. I thought I could ignore it. Denia...