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by cagedmonkey
Wed Aug 20, 2014 2:22 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Can anyone describe how it goes over time?
Replies: 7
Views: 2356

Re: Can anyone describe how it goes over time?

I think it really depends on what your physical experience is with your keyholder (or, if you are self locked, whatever physical experience you subject yourself to). I'm guessing if you took the "lock it and leave it" approach, you'd get acclimated very quickly to the situation. If you end...
by cagedmonkey
Tue Aug 19, 2014 5:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keyholders with no libedo
Replies: 19
Views: 5078

Re: Keyholders with no libedo

Yes cagedmonkey you are one lucky man to have Lady M . You are very instrumental in our journey, and yes my KH is progressing rapidly at being more dominate. Since we started our private journal via Emails as we found to many of our conversations veered off to other things leaving to much unsaid, n...
by cagedmonkey
Tue Aug 19, 2014 5:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male Chastity Blog
Replies: 2
Views: 2487

Re: Male Chastity Blog

Probably made enough money off of that book she sells, so now she doesn't need to mingle with us "peons" anymore. Lol

(P.S. My phone tried to autocorrect "peons" with "peeps." Close enough! :) )
by cagedmonkey
Mon Aug 18, 2014 5:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 8 days
Replies: 3
Views: 1499

Re: 8 days

It can be surprising how fast your desperation can build. It hasn't really gotten any easier for me, even after a number of chastity stints and a longest denial term of 89 days. My advice would be to soak it in and "enjoy" the crazy feelings you ate experiencing. It's why you are doing it,...
by cagedmonkey
Sun Aug 17, 2014 12:16 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Revenge Adjustments
Replies: 3
Views: 2281

Re: Revenge Adjustments

Hopefully this makes the Revenge perfect to wear so hubby can get put in it once it comes back... until Christmas hehe no seeing our feeling his cock... but what a lovely gift hell get to open on Christmas day haha :) If you mean right after the current 24/7 we are doing with the JB right now until...
by cagedmonkey
Sun Aug 17, 2014 12:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keyholders with no libedo
Replies: 19
Views: 5078

Re: Keyholders with no libedo

Lady M wrote "I'm a very active keyholder, a very intense keyholder." I hope more than anything I will hear these words from my keyholder someday. She is getting better every week. I hope you know how good you have it cagedmonkey!!!! Oh, trust me, I do... My Lady is 100% the perfect keyho...
by cagedmonkey
Tue Aug 12, 2014 6:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity pain
Replies: 8
Views: 2597

Re: Chastity pain

Thank you for the replies. Am I really the only one who is experiencing this issue? It's just that it might go after a couple of days, and he really likes that I'm giving up all releases and I really like pleasing him, so I don't mind if my body just needs to adjust... But it would be great to hear...
by cagedmonkey
Fri Aug 08, 2014 3:51 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Questions for the Wives
Replies: 13
Views: 5221

Re: Questions for the Wives

:shock: Lady M.......wow. Do you teach classes on how to be a key holder? I've told her many times before that she should. :D I know that I'd have trouble with the whole "lock it and leave it" dynamic. I need regular attention from My Lady, or else I'd go nuts. Like I've heard people say ...
by cagedmonkey
Sat Aug 02, 2014 4:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First time, long term
Replies: 4
Views: 1823

Re: First time, long term

I certainly don't calm down after a teasing session from My Lady. You two should count yourselves lucky! I do understand your concern, M&S. Before we started doing the chastity thing, I made sure that My Lady understood that I did NOT want a "lock it and leave it" relationship; I wante...
by cagedmonkey
Sat Aug 02, 2014 4:37 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Describe your type of chastity
Replies: 13
Views: 4627

Re: Describe your type of chastity

I feel that chastity comes with a natural D/s subtext. When you are locked in chastity, you are submitting control of your sexuality to your keyholder, either for a little bit of time or a lot. Even if you are holding your own key, you are submitting to whatever limits you set for yourself. You don'...