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I was wondering if anyone practices chastity because of underlying health issues, and it takes the pressure off the sex life, and/or allows an “alternative” sex life. I am really confused by another couple that is having trouble with sex life. They haven’t had sex in a very long time. Wife finally d...

Fiction, as are most “concerns” that don’t involve skin integrity or hygiene.

It’s easy to get so carried away by any practice or style to forget a partner’s needs. What does somebody mean by “chastity”? Wearing a cage sometimes? Total denial? Also, needs change as relationships evolve. Sex is fun. Variety is fun.

Chastity can be a way of slowing down sex and de-emphasizing immediate gratification, but it can be overstated that this somehow makes the man “selfless”. It is a different kind of high, and if you are in a long term relationship, you have to try to connect multiple ways.

Yes my wife uses toys, but a partner’s needs can go beyond the physical need. We’ve been kinky together for over 20 years and have had a lot of different phases. I can be a little too “in my head”. If she thinks I am dwelling on my own kinks more than “connecting” that can be a problem. This problem...

What is the current most popular device for everyday long term wear? This is a reoccurring question posted elsewhere, I know. But I am asking here because there are some really long term wearers on this thread, and it’s a far less theoritical question here, to this audience. What if I wanted maximum...

The fantasy of long term lock ups is fun, but for most people, cock cages are fun toys that are a sometimes thing.

Nothing that dramatic---but we've been together 21 years. Nothing---jobs, family, everyday life---isn't black and white. She's very open minded, but sometimes our sex life is on fire, and sometimes life gets in t All that being said---we went to a sex therapist after 20 years, and it's added a new d...

We've been in a relationship for 21 years. That includes marriage, kids, moving, job changes, ups and downs. Somethings come in style for a while, and then circumstances change. Over a very long period times, there are 1,000,001 things we sometimes enjoy with our partners and sometimes need a break ...

I try to think of the let down as a hangover that will pass if you push through. I also find the longer I go between orgasms, the longer the hangover. “Starting over” can seem overwhelming at first, but can reignite the excitement if you can be ready to muddle through the first few days. Also, we’ve...