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- Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:06 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: New to the site
- Replies: 26
- Views: 14113
Re: New to the site
I think there is also the concern that women tend to think "All he wants is Sex!" When a guy hands over the key? It at least brings up some interesting conversations...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:00 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: More Mainstreaming (sort of)
- Replies: 29
- Views: 15913
Re: More Mainstreaming (sort of)
My SO would prefer I take "care of myself" and it not be a secret. I admit I feel guilty and not all that great about it. Maybe its a needs not being met thing or?! Anyway. Its complicated. MC might be a better solution but I've over thunk that a bit (I admit) I also have to admit that the...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:38 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: Dev's Conceptual Model of Chastity
- Replies: 122
- Views: 61808
Re: Dev's Conceptual Model of Chastity
I think the "I can't wait to be let out" thing (excessive arousal, super-horny) is far to one side while "Why the hell do I wear this damned thing" (impatience, grumpiness) is on the opposite end. The Zen-like perfection is in the middle. I'm always fluctuating... Damn I was sta...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:37 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: The Slippery Slope
- Replies: 34
- Views: 18049
Re: The Slippery Slope
I think we can all get pretty comfortable with our non vanilla kinks but thinking about the right (or VERY ALL SO wrong) context can kind of freak me out. What if I forgot to lock up the "marital Aids / sex toys" after I washed them? Been there, done that. My daughter has made it very cle...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:30 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: David's Year of Orgasm Denial
- Replies: 80
- Views: 32986
Re: David's Year of Orgasm Denial
Personally I wonder how that happens myself. *The desire to be locked rather then to reach climax. I have a feeling that there are many stories and wank-fest material that is more fiction then reality but I can't say from my experience. I've read a few of the stories from (For example) Altar Boy tha...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:58 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: The Slippery Slope
- Replies: 34
- Views: 18049
Re: The Slippery Slope
I think we can all get pretty comfortable with our non vanilla kinks but thinking about the right (or VERY ALL SO wrong) context can kind of freak me out. What if I forgot to lock up the "marital Aids / sex toys" after I washed them? What if our kids, parents, etc walk in while we are doin...
- Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:40 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: David's Year of Orgasm Denial
- Replies: 80
- Views: 32986
Re: David's Year of Orgasm Denial
David you have mentioned several times that you feel wife is not sexually satisfied because you have a sub normal sized penis. In her posts she doesn't say this and when you said that it around 5 inches... Well... I quote "According to the Kinsey Institute, many American men mistakenly think th...
- Mon Nov 01, 2010 9:14 pm
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: More Mainstreaming (sort of)
- Replies: 29
- Views: 15913
Re: More Mainstreaming (sort of)
Some women feel insulted when a man masturbates. I get that. When you have different sex drives how many women have suggested male masturbation? And if for example that was what was happening would it be ok with the men? ie "please take care of yourself" would that sound good? Negative? No...
- Mon Nov 01, 2010 11:40 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: The Slippery Slope
- Replies: 34
- Views: 18049
Re: The Slippery Slope
I read devs FLR blog in detail and see that this attempt to "mainstream" it are making some folks that are more into this Mistress Whip snapped - femdom etc) upset. My FLR is ok, yours is not etc. What to say? I don't think Dev wrote this to do anything but point out that their lifestyle w...
- Mon Nov 01, 2010 11:29 am
- Forum: General Chastity Chat
- Topic: The Slippery Slope
- Replies: 34
- Views: 18049
Re: The Slippery Slope
I don't think that one has to be afraid of things racing out of control. To admit that one thing could lead to another does not mean it will. Everything is done consensually, in the end nobody sane sticks around to be abused. But it would also be a mistake to say that things don't lead on. They us...