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by Jimi123
Sat Nov 06, 2010 9:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)
Replies: 12
Views: 8879

Re: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)

I've always thought that chastity and tantric sex are closely linked but I think OD is perhaps a step further on and I do like the phrase "altered state" here. It is a case of it being incomprehensible until you try it ( for both genders). My hub's response to regular edging is so counter...
by Jimi123
Sat Nov 06, 2010 9:06 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698

Re: Male orgasm frequency

Maybe you should just do some experimentation, figure out what works for you, and then fill us in. I really don't think you are gleaning anything from the responses you are getting. That's fine and all but it is almost like we are going in circles. Yep. I think its kind of a one way street for thos...
by Jimi123
Sat Nov 06, 2010 9:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698

Re: Male orgasm frequency

I think your correct. My view is limited by my experience or lack of.

If the choice is

No sex (Intimacy) versus lots of sexual intimacy of "some" kind it make perfect sense that it has an appeal. And I don't discount the very important piece that a happy wife = a happy husband.
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 10:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698

Re: Male orgasm frequency

I could say something controversial about masturbation, but I think I'll hold my tongue (since, you know, I can't hold anything else). This isn't a scientific poll of anything. It's just a simple question. I assume the 3 who said more are women, but if not, I'd love to hear more. Also, with regard ...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 9:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Female orgasm frequency
Replies: 14
Views: 7638

Re: Female orgasm frequency

No, I'm really not a troll. Not 100% sure what that is but I assume its a guy who really is not interested or into this who hangs around to be a dick. Which is one reason I like the forum. One rule. Don't be a dick! I'm truly interested but maybe its the motives? Maybe its the more careful what I wi...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 9:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)
Replies: 12
Views: 8879

Re: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)

Well Jim I have to admit I admire you. You are a giver and thats a rare thing! ;) Ahh! A light is going off over my head. Chastity. The locking up stuff can be a tool. It can also be a kink. It can be metal or mental or plastic. But the part I think that is making the light bulb light for me is that...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 10:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)
Replies: 12
Views: 8879

Re: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)

"ends" humm... I guess so. However I've done things after I climaxed and in fact for a while we had "men first" to calm things down and enjoyed that. I think the details of Tantric is about total control over male orgasm and being able to "climax" without ejaculation et...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 10:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698

Re: Male orgasm frequency

"How long was the man masturbating before this." My first reaction is to be slightly insulted but... Its a fair question and maybe it really is a part of this but not quite what you might think.... In this case (Again - no one we ahh... know) the man felt that him masturbating was not usef...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)
Replies: 12
Views: 8879

Tantric Sex (Chastity like "control" over male orgasm?)

An interesting post that I got from Dr. Laura Berman's Passion Files *Doesn't this sound a LOT like what couples are doing with Male Chastity??? - Jimi123 Welcome to today's edition of the Passion Files, an e-mail newsletter from America's leading expert in female sexual health. The Joy of Tantric S...
by Jimi123
Fri Nov 05, 2010 8:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 16698

Re: Male orgasm frequency

Humm... Lets be specific. Lets take a couple (Uhhh... no one we know) who has had a pretty awful sex life. The wife thinks that all he wants her for is sex. The man thinks that when she does "put out" she is just doing it out of obligation and their sex life is a total disaster. Now, they ...