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The gap is something of a variable - let's assume the device is like the JailBird, stainless steel and effectively no elasticity, unlike the plastic devices which can be easily deformed. The base ring and cage ring are separated in the direction of the mounting pillar by the nominal gap as suggested...

I feel your pain, or rather, I have felt that pain ! My left testicle is smaller than the right, so that's the one that escapes. In my case the gap is 3/8" according to the specification, but that is simply the height difference between ring and cage (if the device is sitting on a flat surface,...

AAh, the joys of the seated pee ! Like the OP I have also attempted the standing pee in a JailBird, and like him have found the slightest mis-alignment results in an unpredictable splashing, though predictably the unused toilet roll is in the line of fire :roll: I would suggest taking a file to the ...

Must be something in the air/water/whatever in Suffolk !

I, too, live in Suffolk and am currently in my JailBird, the key being attached to My Lady's keyring. Currently locked for an unspecified period...

I'm curious in others thoughts - is a 'full' ruined orgasm cheating on your sentence? I suspece a lot of men are enjoying it more than they let on. I've yet to experience the "ruined orgasm" as part of chastity play with my wife, but out of interest I did take the Hitachi Wand to my JailB...

aaah, the joys of Anglo-American language misunderstanding

(US )pants = (uk)trousers

(UK) pants = what you wear UNDER trousers (and I don't mean socks!)

I've not looked through the OP's posts so I don't know what device he uses, but anyway I suspect it really isn't as noticeable through clothes as he and his wife think it is - that is just their perception being enhanced by knowledge. Also, being English, I have no idea what haggars or dockers are :...

It depends on the extent of the D/s relationship. I know some where the possibility of an argument doesn't exist - the Domme ALWAYS has the final say. A reasoned discussion is allowed, but if the sub gets angry, it will end in a punishment, though the relationships I know, and in ours, are more at t...

We started using chastity devices as part of a BDSM-style Dominant/submissive relationship, but currently the D/s element has reduced to zero for a variety of health and other reasons. We started the BDSM relationship based on a successful long-term marriage, initially as switches, ie taking both Do...

If the cage is a snug fit on the flaccid cock, if you start an erection it gently presses on the sides and stops it developing. Provided it fits properly - which is where the custom devices score. I can honestly say I have never had a painful (non) erection with my JailBird, just a gentle restrictio...