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by lockedsteve
Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ultimate or best orgasm
Replies: 8
Views: 2428

Re: Ultimate or best orgasm

I have gone a little over 3 month without an orgasm and when I had it, it was intense but disappointing. My urethra burned and my semen was so thick with sperma that it flowed out rather that shot out across the room as normal. We are discovering that there is a fine line between too short and too l...
by lockedsteve
Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Almost two years!!
Replies: 13
Views: 4469

Re: Almost two years!!

Congrats. I finished my second year recently too and took a few weeks break. Had some skin issues on my scrotum and wanted it to clear up. I am locked again as of today but I do not know for how long because my skin condition may be chronic and due to my old age. I have only been locked for 2 years,...
by lockedsteve
Sat Oct 17, 2015 11:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anxiety
Replies: 10
Views: 5927

Re: Anxiety

I had a few bouts of anxiety and I felt trapped. I usually get anxious when I am in situation that I am not in control of. I used to use the security screw with my Jailbird but I went back to the padlock. I have cross threaded screws before and had to drill them out. The screw also came loose after ...
by lockedsteve
Sat Oct 17, 2015 11:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it true that they never go back?
Replies: 22
Views: 9653

Re: Is it true that they never go back?

What I find is that over time my wife just expects me to be locked up and she does not check or ask me much anymore. If she sees that I am unlocked when I take a shower, during sex or hugging her, she will ask why I am not locked up and tells me to lock up. She just takes it for granted that I will ...
by lockedsteve
Sat Oct 17, 2015 11:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Smaller ring?
Replies: 11
Views: 3208

Re: Smaller ring?

As a previous poster said, it will reduce travel but it can bruise your balls. That is what happens to me. My larger ring allows my balls to slip through if my wife tugs on my cage during sex so I went one size smaller and that works except my balls can feel bruised if I get too many erections.
by lockedsteve
Mon Oct 12, 2015 3:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Total orgasm control.... Good or bad
Replies: 17
Views: 6300

Re: Total orgasm control.... Good or bad

We keep seesawing between a specific target date and no date. The only rule we have is that I have at least one orgasm once every 3 months but my wife usually targets the major holidays and our wedding anniversary. I know what is going on in her mind. When she sets a target date, she can deny me wit...
by lockedsteve
Mon Oct 12, 2015 3:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Our Journey Begins
Replies: 17
Views: 6209

Re: Our Journey Begins

I like the single ring because it does offer more movement which helps when sitting down in the car of at home. I hardly feel my Jailbird most times. Right now I cannot even feel it because I am so used to wearing it and it is only about 5 ounces.
by lockedsteve
Mon Oct 12, 2015 3:30 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] Taking a break from 24/7 chastity
Replies: 1
Views: 2187

Re: [lockedsteve] Taking a break from 24/7 chastity

Seems that my break was short lived. My wife told me that I am a bitch when I am not locked up. I refused to massage her feet after she gave me an orgasm and for some reason is expecting me to behave like I do when I am very horny, a few hours after an orgasm or two or four. So i am locked up again....
by lockedsteve
Sun Oct 11, 2015 6:05 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] Taking a break from 24/7 chastity
Replies: 1
Views: 2187

[lockedsteve] Taking a break from 24/7 chastity

After two years of 24/7 chastity, we have decided to no longer do chastity long term. There are several reasons for it but no point in boring others with them since they really do not have to do with chastity per se but rather the reasons we got into chastity in the first place. Those reasons no lon...
by lockedsteve
Sun Oct 11, 2015 3:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Taking a break from chastity
Replies: 2
Views: 1625

Taking a break from chastity

After two years of wearing a chastity cage and peeing sitting down, I am going to take a break from chastity; well at least 24/7 chastity. I tried taking a break twice already in the last few months but ended up going back into it but lately my wife has been so happy with me that she wants to give m...