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by lockedsteve
Fri Jun 19, 2015 5:19 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: CB-6000S not preventing masturbation. Alternatives?
Replies: 10
Views: 4294

Re: CB-6000S not preventing masturbation. Alternatives?

I have always wondered why guys want to masturbate when they are the ones who asked for chastity. I really would like to learn why. I find it interesting since my approach is so different. Not better, just different. I look at it as if a cuckold was trying to prevent his wife from having sex with ot...
by lockedsteve
Thu Jun 18, 2015 8:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity contract....!?
Replies: 18
Views: 8000

Re: Chastity contract....!?

Generally I have been against contracts when starting chastity. My reason is that they tend to be confining when we should be trying new things often. It is a pain to keep amending them. I signed off on a chastity contract this morning. :?: For someone who thinks they are a pain, you sure have a he...
by lockedsteve
Thu Jun 18, 2015 4:45 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity contract....!?
Replies: 18
Views: 8000

Re: Chastity contract....!?

Generally I have been against contracts when starting chastity. My reason is that they tend to be confining when we should be trying new things often. It is a pain to keep amending them. I signed off on a chastity contract this morning. The reason is that after almost two years, we know what works f...
by lockedsteve
Thu Jun 18, 2015 4:08 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Device Specs
Replies: 15
Views: 5931

Re: Device Specs

Mature Metal Jailbird
1 7/8" Ring
1 1/4" length
Almost two years
4 months and currently waiting 6 months.
Locked for 4 months without release.
by lockedsteve
Thu Jun 18, 2015 4:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Fits like a glove - and now constantly horny
Replies: 8
Views: 6080

Re: Fits like a glove - and now constantly horny

Being constantly horny is what I like about chastity. New devices always are exciting but that wears off. I have been in my JB for about 5 months and am very used to it. The longer I go without an orgasm, the less I get erect or feel the need for an orgasm. That makes it easier to go long term witho...
by lockedsteve
Mon Jun 15, 2015 1:49 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] From no interest to long term denial
Replies: 0
Views: 3025

[lockedsteve] From no interest to long term denial

Just a little under two years ago I was dealing with a wife who just went through menopause and lost her long time girlfriend. Since coming out as bi many,many years ago, my wife has preferred sex in a threesome with her girlfriend. She is sort of half and half on which gender she likes sex with. Sh...
by lockedsteve
Sun Jun 14, 2015 10:07 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Escapeartist balls.
Replies: 6
Views: 3474

Re: Escapeartist balls.

I am now on the 4th custom made ring in 6 months. Some rings are fine top to bottom but too tight in the width. A two inch oval ring is the most comfortable and easiest to put on. The problem is that if I sit or bend over in a certain way, my balls pop out. I always find it amazing how they fit in a...
by lockedsteve
Thu Jun 11, 2015 11:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: does this happen to you after being locked for a while?
Replies: 20
Views: 6343

Re: does this happen to you after being locked for a while?

I have problems in maintaining an erection after a long lock up period. My solution was to go online and buy some generic Viagra from a reliable source. I have a 3 years supply so erections are not longer a problem. I too get back to normal after a few days unlocked. I am unlocked now waiting for my...
by lockedsteve
Wed Jun 10, 2015 3:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What is Chastity - locked and/or orgasm denial.
Replies: 7
Views: 3200

Re: What is Chastity - locked and/or orgasm denial.

I agree. I have found it confusing since we have only been doing this for two years an I never knew what the poster was saying. While I do not find it a competition, since we do things as we like, I will admit that I do chuckle when I am struggling with a few months of no orgasm and I read some youn...
by lockedsteve
Tue Jun 09, 2015 4:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does chastity lead to changes in female dominance?
Replies: 8
Views: 3258

Re: Does chastity lead to changes in female dominance?

My wife is very submissive in real life but I have never led a vanilla life. Most of our marriage was in a poly triad with my wife's girlfriend/lover, who was my Mistress and sadist to my masochist. We are now just a couple again and well into our second year of long term chastity/orgasm denial. My ...