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I'm just wondering if any of these sound familiar to any of you. I wrote these to my wife. 1. The take charge chick in you is pretty hot. It’ll be exciting to see that girl take control. 2. To remind me that sexual stimulation is for and from you. 3. It’s one way to balance our libidos. As we’ve lea...

This is the full list of "why's" that I came up with. 1. The take charge chick in you is pretty hot. It’ll be exciting to see that girl take control. 2. To remind me that sexual stimulation is for and from you. 3. It’s one way to balance our libidos. As we’ve learned over the years, we’re ...

As I mentioned in my “Hello, World!” post, my/our entry into chastity has begun as an acknowledgement of reality. My wife holds the sexual power. From the beginning, I’ve been the typical over-sexed male. Early on I struggled with a porn habit and while that’s largely something that I avoid now, the...

I’ve enjoyed reading your journey. It’s very encaouraging; thanks for sharing it with us.

I just love that she initiated the whole thing How does the old song go? “I want YOU to want ME!” That’s the key to everything for me. It turns me on, makes me feel loved, increases intimacy... the list goes on. For my wife and I the bottom line is really, does this increase intimacy. We’re new to ...

SteveT wrote:What *does* NOvember mean?

Ha! I’m wondering the same thing. I’m pretty sure in my case it means whatever my wife decides it means. Probably no orgasm since, like you, the plan is for continual locking. But we shall see! She could be bluffing.

I am so sorry to hear of your wife’s cancer, yet I’ve enjoyed hearing of how your time in chastity has drawn the two of you closer together - and maybe when she needs you most. I’m hoping that my wife and I chart a similar course.

Thank you, TM! I sent you a private message, but it appears that maybe I’m not allowed to do that yet?

I'm new here, but just wanted to chime in and say that that's wonderful. I'm glad that it was a loving kind of weekend. Many of the things that you have said, noid51, as well as the other posters, definitely resonates with me. Chastity aside, just when I'm feeling down about our sexual relationship,...

I didn't think that I'd have anything to add until last night when my wife and I were texting: "[I'm excited for] when my lovely wife unlocks me," I wrote. She responded, "In December". Earlier she had been considering participating in NO!vember. It looks like she made her decisi...