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by betheball
Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity via Hypnosis success
Replies: 76
Views: 141772

Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Very interesting thread here. Been lurking for a while on this. And interested in this topic, as I've been travelling quite a bit for work recently, and haven't had the opportunity to "lock up" (with all due respect to others out there, my travel schedule hasn't been able to include the ch...
by betheball
Fri Jul 20, 2012 4:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prostatic Orgasm?
Replies: 25
Views: 11449

Re: Prostatic Orgasm?

Lots of interesting replies, but back to the question at hand. The use of a prostate massager is a bit of a contradiction to the use of a CD. For those pursuing the "hands-free" O - beyond just milking the prostate, it's a journey requiring significant relaxation, including a lack of stimu...
by betheball
Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC
Replies: 15
Views: 5413

Re: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC

Thanks for all the kind words. Appreciate the perspectives of HH, and others who have been there/done that in this area. I don't like to think of getting old, but tease and denial games have definitely kept a fun spark going. Just as an update. We continue down this path of no BC. Her doc (heart doc...
by betheball
Thu Apr 19, 2012 9:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC
Replies: 15
Views: 5413

Re: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC

@hot toddie dog - Exactly! I sort of feel like a new train is leaving the station (the non-PIV one, with me in long-term denial), and I'm not sure I signed up for that just yet. Right now, it's fun, but that's more about the head rush. I'm nervous about her expectations, and more important, how it m...
by betheball
Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:29 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Documentary
Replies: 14
Views: 6794

Re: Chastity Documentary

On the contrary, I do see this as something that I WISH could be brought into the mainstream. To the question asked: "would this be a great topic to create a documentary?" Yes, for the simple fact of the amount of time, dollars and thought invested in this little corner of the world must b...
by betheball
Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC
Replies: 15
Views: 5413

Re: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC

Good points on the perils of BC-less sex. Certainly understand and agree. This really isn't about playing Russian Roulette. It's more about the "headspace" of knowing that PIV, as we know it, is not an option. PIV-less sex is still an option (and the basis for teasing that happens today. T...
by betheball
Tue Apr 17, 2012 9:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC
Replies: 15
Views: 5413

Upping the ante? leaving the world of BC

A new twist in the chastity experience: My KH, and loving mother of our two offspring, is "upping the ante" so to speak around chastity. She's been having challenges with her health, and current birth control methods (pill form). Net result is that a combination of genetics, and her curren...
by betheball
Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not nearly as horny as I would expect
Replies: 4
Views: 2089

Re: Not nearly as horny as I would expect

I would think, given your experience, that you've built up a stamina to chastity. 3-5 or 7 days is not really that exciting. For me, there's a definite, post-orgasmic down time after a long chastity sting that's AT LEAST seven days before I even start to approach something Nirvana-ish. Two to three ...
by betheball
Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: KH question
Replies: 23
Views: 6577

Re: KH question

Holy crap! There's a lot to be said for sharing stuff on the blogosphere, or even an airplane ride, where there's a degree of anonymity (I've had some great "therapy", life-guiding, and even hot-as-leather-in-July conversations with airplane people...all based on the assumption that I can,...
by betheball
Tue Sep 20, 2011 5:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: KH question
Replies: 23
Views: 6577

Re: KH question

This seems like bad karma. Whenever locked, I do find myself in a "headspace" around my KH, trying to make her happy, fantasizing about her, and trying to gain favor - whether she reciprocates or not. I could fathom how a "remote" KH could work, but it would be difficult for some...