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by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women
Replies: 7
Views: 2459

Re: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women

We have a MCN cage, and an A272 tube style device. She prefers the MCN cage. She likes seeing me extruding through the bars, and she likes to push her finger tips through the bars to play with the animal inside. It took a while for her to get used to seeing it. Then she decided she liked it.
by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?
Replies: 13
Views: 4727

Re: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?

Tom, your posts are often thought provoking and as usual, spot on. I view the chastity device as a symbol of transferring power to my wife. She enjoys the control and for her, it has been transformative. As I wear the device, and she exercises and expands her control, there is a great deal of trust ...
by Xileh
Wed May 08, 2019 2:19 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot dildo sex
Replies: 16
Views: 7990

Re: Hot dildo sex

We use a SpareParts Deuce harness and a Vixen Maverick. Wow. My cage fits nicely in the pouch. As mentioned above, I warm it in hot water in advance, use plenty of warmed lube, and keep a towel nearby to wipe my hands before proceeding. With a large dildo, I warm her up with a few O’s first. She lov...
by Xileh
Tue Apr 16, 2019 9:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 38
Views: 11463

Re: Matrix of chastity

I guess I started thinking in very general terms when I saw some discussions on the use of the term "permanent chastity," and how some people were disagreeing on it. "Permanent" requires some personal definition of the "foreseeable future." For many, the future is a we...
by Xileh
Tue Jan 29, 2019 12:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1402423

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

Can you give us a link to the particular unit ? The harness is a SpareParts Deuce, the dildo a Vixskin Mustang. A high quality combination. The harness is great. It is very comfortable, cradling your cage safely in a pouch. The straps are soft and do not loosen during use. The dildo is securely hel...
by Xileh
Mon Jan 28, 2019 9:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1040
Views: 1402423

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

A while ago, I proposed buying a strapon for me to wear while locked up. The reason being, she wouldn't be denied, and would be able to totally relax and be selfish about her pleasure. I mentioned that one review for the harness/dildo combination I looked at, written by a woman, said that after tryi...
by Xileh
Thu Jan 24, 2019 12:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 22
Views: 6926

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

After a while, even an allowed 'full' orgasms seems to feel as though it is mostly 'ruined', and if the cage is replaced immediately after there is little or no 'drop' and by the next day I feel like I'm just as horny as I was before. I discovered this too. The last time she let me out to play, she...
by Xileh
Thu Jan 24, 2019 11:50 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: A272/A271 Base Ring
Replies: 22
Views: 7153

Re: A272/A271 Base Ring

Adam444 wrote: Thu Dec 27, 2018 5:57 am It's so frustrating because I like the design/size of the tube but after a few hours the discomfort became unbearable.
Were you using lube or powder under the ring? Like Tom, I have found this to be the most comfortable ring design I have tried.
by Xileh
Mon Jan 21, 2019 10:26 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Metal cages and clothing friction
Replies: 12
Views: 3372

Re: Metal cages and clothing friction

I have a A272 and a MCN Contender. I solved the rubbing issue with underwear. I use basic Hanes synthetic boxers. They have a kind of silky feeling. The Contender cage light weight and easier to keep clean, the A272 is more intense and works better for yoga.
by Xileh
Mon Jan 21, 2019 10:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 22
Views: 6926

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

I suffer with the same decision. An orgasm is what I think about a lot. But, when given the opportunity, I don't want it and the associated drop.

It shouldn't be that difficult to decide...